How to cum faster

[redone999]

Well i dont know if any of you guys have this problem but i cant get myself to cum with my new girlfriend and its driving me nuts, though i can cum perfectly while watching porn. 4 hrs and not cumming isnt something i want to have without control so if someone can enlighten me on this situation and if anyone else has had this situation yeah help out

 

[AFA]

Not taking Viagra? They always warn about erections lasting more than 4 hours;

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Viagra

There's a thread somewhere here.

 

[DevinnLaneLover]

I've had this problem a few times. Are you taking anti-depressants? They will effect you in this area from time to time. You also have to beware of worrying about it (like I have many times) because it will prevent it as well.

There are things you can try - like different positions, special lubricating condoms (some are studded inside for men and they are awesome)...

I would also advise you to stop masturbating if you are still doing it - it may make it easier for you in the long run.

 

[Pathogen]

Condoms too tight? Nervous?

 

[Slam]

Are you nervous at all? Is this your first girlfriend with which you are having sex? Maybe you should start with a hand-job from her, lie down and relax. Throw a porn on maybe to get you comfortable if you need to. Slowly work from there to sex. Maybe you are trying too hard, you should just do what feels good not what you see on porn.

 

[AFA]

Well for me, nervous means it doesn't work all that well. :dunno:

I like holding off and lasting as long as possible. When I do have times when I can't finish I'm happy my partner had multiples.

 

[bigbadbrody]

I remember the days when all the guys were asking "How do I keep from cumming so fast"

Now you are wanting to reverse the whole thing

 

[redone999]

haha yeah true, well i am nervous, i just got out of this 2 yr engagment and this girl i really like and shes older than me its kinda intimidating too, but the condoms ill try, anything else? i also think its my masterbation habits too, i fucking do that WAY too much

 

[cfvandal]

Yeah jerking off too much will make it definitly hard for you to finish, I have the same problem, the key is too slow down with it. The other thing is you need to clear your mind, when your with your new girl you need to just think "pussy around my dick", try not too worry about why its taking too long. If you worry about it its gonna take even longer.
They also say that one of the draw backs of porn is that it desensitizes you away from regular sex. Like You Might have seen some crazy shit and the normal guy needs too see some crazy hot shit to get off and the majority of "real" sex just isnt all that crazy.

 

[pussy+dickdenice]

I'm no expert and I do understand your plight. Tell me are you really in love with your girl friend? If yes, then you have some mental block, like "being afraid of impregnating her".

This is just the psychologist in me.
pd

 

[AFA]

Actually you could cum faster if you were on a train?

Hope that helps!

 

[redone999]

I'm no expert and I do understand your plight. Tell me are you really in love with your girl friend? If yes, then you have some mental block, like "being afraid of impregnating her".

This is just the psychologist in me.
pd

well its not that, i just got out of a two year ingagement and now im with my recent gf who ive always liked. i think its just that, i guess in time but ill take teh advice on clearing my mind and think about the sex and not when its going to happen.

 

[bigbadbrody]

Actually you could cum faster if you were on a train?

Hope that helps!

would this be a bullet train or an old wooden train:rofl:

BTW... I don't get it

 

[redone999]

:eek: you have every point covered

its going to take some hard work i guess but yeah i guess i am nervous. before i had no problem cumming with my ex... but as time has passed these couple of days i feel like im getting closer but maybe this will help me reassure myself

thanks alot

 

[Member2019]

Have to second Fox's masterbation recommendation.
Find something you're comfortable with and then involve her.

And while you might like to masterbate, try stroking but not unloading.
After a day or two, you'll be ready to pop!

I travel away from my wife, so I know all about not masterbating.
Especially the week before I see her, so she gets the full benefit of my collected lust.

 

[tartanterrier]

Maybe you get your Wifey to stick her finger up your ass :dunno:

I usually have it the other way round :rofl:

 

[squallumz]

Well i dont know if any of you guys have this problem but i cant get myself to cum with my new girlfriend and its driving me nuts, though i can cum perfectly while watching porn. 4 hrs and not cumming isnt something i want to have without control so if someone can enlighten me on this situation and if anyone else has had this situation yeah help out

youre nervous and too anxious. enough said. relax. enjoy it. i know youre concentrating on cumming but its only making it worse. been there.

 

[xxaru]

And if none of this stuff works for you... and you're not on any medications or drugs... then maybe you just need to get a hotter girl j/k

 

[MRPIMPN4EVA]

I wanna last as long as I can.

 

[alexios]

Shit....what about masturbation...nerves..AND anti-depressants!?!?!