How the hardcore porn industry is ruining young men's lives...

[dongkong]

For some people it can ruin their lives and for some it dosnt. Just like gambling can ruin some peoples lives and not others.

 

[Danglyparts]

nope. idiots aren't taking responsibility for their actions

 

[El Perro Mayor]

I watched Looney Tunes as a kid, still do evrey so often, and never once ran into a wall. Sober that is.

 

[~~whimsy~~]

Just makes me cry because I know Shane Diesel will never show up at my house. :crying:

 

[StanScratch]

I had a tough time reading the story, until I imagined it was Gail Force that wrote the story, not this Gail Dines character. Best cum I've had in ages!

 

[Spleen]

"Studies show that the more porn men watch, the more they want to play out porn sex in the real world"

In my case, this is true. But I have never heard a woman complain. Infact, they've always come back for more. And I'm not being bigheaded, it's just the truth.

Any woman who bitches about it saying "real sex isn't like porn sex" isn't having enough fun in bed.

My current girlfriend can't get enough. I'm pretty sure we are more hardcore than the shit you see in most modern internet porn flicks.

 

[grower_boy]

Well, the young people today ARE changing. As a social worker, I have witnessed a lot of it. In kindergarten, there were 4- and 5-yearolds discussing porn videos they watched as there older brothers had them sitting besides them surfing or watching video cassettes. There are more and more children who do things like group blowjob sessions in youthcenters, when there's no adult around, etc.

This video report is in german language, sadly, bur it shows a lot of what is going on:







Mind you, I am all for talking openly about sexuality with children, so they can learn it is okay to feel good about their own body and that they should have control about what they want and what not, and what to do if they don't want something.

But watching hardcore sex is not in that agenda.

Wow, I just now noticed this post.

Just curious, but how do 4 year olds "talk about" porn? Like what do they say about it?

 

[Moonchild22]

Life is ruining my life. Everything else is just scenery.

 

[pete rose]

I'm fine, thanks!

 

[Johan]

It [...] exploits women

I always find very funny to read/hear that the porn in,dustry exploits women. Imean, these girls are in there on free will, they get paid for the job and they can leave the industry whenever they want.

women's bodies and sexuality are offered to male consumers

Women body and sexuality are SOLD to male consumers and women get their share in the transaction.

porn sites increased 17 per cent from 2009 to 2010.

In these troubled times where economy is crushing and the business leaving western countries because of lower salary cost in India or China, this is one sector of the economy wich is doing very well and employing mostly americans and europeans, not hindis or chineses.

This is a business with considerable political clout, with the capacity to lobby politicians, engage in expensive legal battles and use public relations to influence public debate.

So are businesses such as tobacco or guns. At least porn never killed anyone or caused cancer.

The addicted young men I speak to do indeed end up in serious trouble. They neglect their school work, spend huge amounts of money they don't have, become isolated from others, and often suffer depression.

Same goes about video games such as WoW.
Once more the problem is not the product. The problem is that the users just don't know how to use it.

 

[Deepcover]

I watched Looney Tunes as a kid, still do evrey so often, and never once ran into a wall. Sober that is.

Oh yeah? Try watching Tom and Jerry. I'm sure you tried to bash your friend with a polo mallet

 

[Member2019]

Okay, let's see here ... "regular" American movies ...

"It rakes in billions, exploits women, and leaves men disgusted with themselves."

Okay, they had me at "leaves men disgusted with themselves."

Let's see here ... "regular" American movies already tell me ...
- The guy always gets the girl
- You have to be rich to be happy
- Everyone has impulse sex without thinking about STDs
- You can change the world overnight
- Violence is good, violence is fun

Yeah, okay, hmmm.

Let me put it this way ...

Values are fucked up in ALL movies, Hollywood is "just as bad"

And beyond that ...

Only WE can find "contentment" for ourselves "in real life"

Frankly, if people are looking to movies -- porn or mainstream -- to find what they are looking for in life, that's a problem in general.

Porn is the excuse, not the issue.

 

[squallumz]

In fact, to the contrary, I think it made me a much more open-minded sexual being, and introduced me to lots of stuff that I otherwise might never have tried.

there you go. same here. and same goes from my girl.

shes even gave it up to sasha grey for a certain oral technique.

made me very proud!