Its definitely something that has to be done right. I would imagine if it is not done properly it would be so painful and not pleasurably in the least. Our experience with this is with a toy as well. After being really turned on and worked up she uses a toy on her butt while I am in her pussy. This is after there has been lots of lubrication and she is really turned on. Lots of vaginal sex first. It is done slowly and gradually until all the way in with lots of time to do so. This is what works for us. You have to take your time. She says it makes both openings really tight and there is so much pleasure with the friction. She goes slowly while slide in and out of her pussy with increasing force and frequency. Its not for everybody and thats cool. But we like it!
The best way baby, is to let her explore the anal side of her fantasies with a dildo while your doing her pussy. she'll know how it feels. she'll dictate the past with witch she wants to master her sphynxer and more importantly, she needs to do this with a dildo that has close to your cock size and width. So that way, when she's ready for you and wants it , it will fell great and no matter what , once your in, you have to let her dictate the past baby and follow her lead, and beleive me, when she's ready for a hard pounding, your so call gentle and beautifull,polite and religious girlfriend of yours will turn into this sexy,aroused animal wanting it hard and transform into a nasty slut wanting it harder and harder.
When it comes to anal sex or dp's, the woman must be in charge until she tells you it,s time and you'll know , because she'll turn into the slut of your dreams.
For people posting on this thread, if you haven,t lived the experience and don,t wish too, thats your desicion and it's respected, but please don,t come here and add an opinion if you don't know what your talking about.
thank you and like always, i love you all :lovecoupl