How do you cope with Anti-Porn Friends?

[thexflash]

Writing this, I'm close to 50,000 posts here. You can easily tell I'm a huge fan of porn.
Still, 9/10 of my friends have no clue. I always have to keep it a secret - the one thing I love to spend time on privately is unknown to them...
I can't speak of this with them.
Why?
They confuse sex, sexuality and sexism, right? Or?
All right then haters... (Pic stolen from: http://html.sxx.com/2/208/pics/102626/nude/486_c1848_01.html )

 

[Johan]

I think porn is something private.
You don't gather with some friens to watch some porn like you would to watch sport, go to the movies, to the pub/bar/restaurant, to play board games, poker or video games.
You don't discuss with your friends about the last porn you watch, just like you would talk about yesterday's evening's game or about the movie you saw last week-end
If you're watching some porn and someone enters the room, you stop immediately, you don't tell him/her to join you

 

[thexflash]

Yes, I keep it private.
But I don't want to keep it hidded anymore.

 

[xfire]

Porn isn't a topic that comes up very often in casual conversation with people face-to-face, at least not in my experience. What are your expectations of going public with your love of porn? I would advise against it, not because there's anything wrong with it, but because of the reasons you already mentioned, people get uptight about it. Discussing it, reveling in it, bragging about it, that's what FreeOnes and the internet writ large is for.

 

[earlyriser]

Definitely private for me, females wouldn't understand

 

[Supafly]

I talk about it in general terms with some, from time to time. In my experience, it isn't like years before, anymore. Many women see it quite positive, in part due to erotica smash hits like "50 Shades of Grey", etc.

The key is to mention hints, and not push the subject. If someone picks up on it, the discussion can go there. But best in talks between two people. Group discussions tend to go south

 

[Little Red Wagon Repairman]

First rule of Freeones Message Board Store Of Pornography Club? Don’t talk about Freeones Message Board Store Of Pornography Club!

I keep things quiet so my neighbors don’t know what a sweaty pervert I am. The only exceptions are my even more perverted and perspiring Persian next door neighbor and the creepy, salivating, urine-smelling, semen-stained, inbred, half-retarded Jewish furball who looks exactly like David Berkowitz that I rent my guest house to.

 

[Supafly]

First rule of Freeones Message Board Store Of Pornography Club? Don’t talk about Freeones Message Board Store Of Pornography Club!

I keep things quiet so my neighbors don’t know what a sweaty pervert I am. The only exceptions are my even more perverted and perspiring Persian next door neighbor and the creepy, salivating, urine-smelling, semen-stained, inbred, half-retarded Jewish furball who looks exactly like David Berkowitz that I rent my guest house to.

Just start wearing your gear proud, like the perv you and I are

 

[Little Red Wagon Repairman]

Just start wearing your gear proud, like the perv you and I are

Nah. My wife is one of my anti-porn friends. She’s OK with me wearing shirts with pentagrams and upside down crosses but she wouldn’t be cool with porno attire. Gotta keep peace in the house.

 

[jonno2004]

I know some feminists who think porn should be banned

 

[assari]

I know some feminists who think porn should be banned

Feminists also want to ban ads that portray beautiful women.

 

[meesterperfect]

 

[georges]

I think past 25 years old, you are enough mature to know what life is and what your responsibilities are. I know that some of my friends are against porn but when I ask them how do you spice your sex life , it is a kind of taboo subject but with others no problems. Yes, it is a private subject but a poor boring sexual life and a poor communication in a couple is often a source of divorce. Always separate porn and reality.

 

[xfire]

Talking about sex is pretty much inappropriate with anyone other than who you're having sex with.

 

[meesterperfect]

Talking about sex is pretty much inappropriate with anyone other than who you're having sex with.

Twice in my life a guy I was hanging out with put on a porn.
And twice in my life I got the fuck out of there as soon as possible......which was immediately.
Its creepy. Its a creepy thing.

 

[smithus]

All the men I know are pro-porn

 

[Supafly]

Twice in my life a guy I was hanging out with put on a porn.
And twice in my life I got the fuck out of there as soon as possible......which was immediately.
Its creepy. Its a creepy thing.

I remember the early videocassette days, in the 80ies, when it was still undecided if VHS, Video2000 or Betamax would win

Videoplayers and videorecorders were still really high-price, so my buddies and myself, who were all around 18 to 21 rented these players along with the cassettes with the movies, for binge-watching weekends, whenever parents were away for a weekend. There were always the newest Stallone or Schwarzenegger movies, but also always one or two porno movies.

It was awkward as shit to watch them, without being able to wank, so we kept making stupid jokes and in retrospective, that was stupid

My buddies realized at that point, that I had a special thing for porn, so they gifted me the music to "New Wave Hookers" on an album, for my 20th birthday. Titles like "Chewing The Fat", "Blow Out Of Proportion", etc

 

[xfire]

It was awkward as shit to watch them, without being able to wank, so we kept making stupid jokes and in retrospective, that was stupid

Porn is not group entertainment. Unless your group is into orgies.

 

[Supafly]

Porn is not group entertainment. Unless your group is into orgies.

No shit, Sherlock. Those were stupid, stupid times.

Plus I grew up autistic, I guess, by all the strange ways I behaved

 

[xfire]

No shit, Sherlock. Those were stupid, stupid times.

Plus I grew up autistic, I guess, by all the strange ways I behaved

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