Preach it!
This is not true. Many women who work in the sex industry are not sexually promiscuous or have greater sexual appetites. That is the way men some like to think about it because they themselves feel bad about about their own sexuality and using porn or prostitutes or lap dancers or whatever. In fact there is nothing for men to be ashamed about in any of these things.
Preach it!
The key is to respect the values of others, and that means as a male, you only unleash your lust on women giving permission as they see fit.
But when a woman does, don't feel bad, if your lust and desire does not exceed their permission and values.
It's called consent.
I will not apologize how lustfully I am for my wife and how much I treat much I treat her like a sex object.
I'm not going to lie to myself, let alone her, in saying I don't want to lay with her and play with her anatomy.
My desire is to suck, cup, hump and unload all over her and in her.
Lust is healthy in my marriage, and I'm not limiting myself.
If other women remind me of the best features of my wife, then so be it, they do have similarities.
But I don't unleash that lust on anyone but the perfect sum of that perfection, and I will never elsewhere.
Many women work in the sex industry because of poverty, drug abuse and so on. Others because it gives them money they could not get elsewhere. But others work there because they actually like men (men, not sex!) and like the fact that their bodies can give such pleasure to them. There is a lot of satisfaction in being able to give pleasure like that.
The key is to get to what the woman wants you to enjoy, not what she is either playing or think you desire.
I think this is why I could never be with a prostitute any more than the fact that I never took advantage of a woman under influence.
Even today, I don't ever make love to my wife when she has remotely reached a level of inebriation.
I want a lover who is totally into me, and consents to how I am "using her" in full knowledge.
So a woman who plays is not one who interests me.
Accordingly, a woman who does not like a sexual position is not one I will force or even dream of forcing into it.
It's not about forcing her what she doesn't want to do, it's about finding a woman and enjoying something we find mutually pleasurable.
I never, ever told a lover, "you need to do this, if you don't like it, somethings wrong with you" or "everyone else does it."
Finding lovers are about finding compatibility, finding compatibility of values, pursuits and desires.
I find that transitions into my love of models, pornstars and any woman who opens her gifts to me in however she does, as long as it is her desire.
I know some one in my family who works as a prostitute and I know some of her friends. They are women like any others and they are interested in having boy friends like any other and they go to work like anyone else. They are definitely much more careful about their sexual health and STDs than almost any other girls.
Always treat a woman like a lady, period, no matter how she treats you.
Of course, don't let anyone take advantage or "walk all over you" of you any more than you would take advantage of them (just avoid those types in general).
But when you have to deal with someone, it doesn't matter how they treat you, just treat them how you would treat anyone.
That is what people notice the most -- the guy that always treats women like ladies, equally.
Of course he will favor those who return the favor, and not hang around a woman who does not.
It's not the same as a man who lust for a woman who treats him like dirt, just because she's hot, especially if he has beauty in front of him that he does not treat as equally.
I can't understand men who lust for just one woman who will not pleasure him, he needs to reconsider his focus.
