How is it a cop out? People like different things. That you don't understand that is on you, not on people who enjoy the kind of porn you're questioning the value of.
The bigger picture is that it's abnormal to be aroused by losing access to reproduction, cause that's what sex ultimately is, but disregarding that my point is that the vast majority of people that watch "regular" porn would NOT want to be next to some people fucking while they jerk off in the same room AND they would not be ok with seeing someone they are interested in (even if a one night stand with a random new person) get fucked in front of them.
How is it a cop out? People like different things. That you don't understand that is on you, not on people who enjoy the kind of porn you're questioning the value of.
The bigger picture is that it's abnormal to be aroused by losing access to reproduction, cause that's what sex ultimately is, but disregarding that my point is that the vast majority of people that watch "regular" porn would NOT want to be next to some people fucking while they jerk off in the same room AND they would not be ok with seeing someone they are interested in (even if a one night stand with a random new person) get fucked in front of them
It's a reasonable question. I'll preface my answer by telling you that a) I'm happy with my dick, and 2) I'm not racist. Or, at least, super-racist.
I think rather than seeing oneself as a spectator whilst wanking to the aforementioned coitus, some guys (like me) are imagining that they are that guy (it helps that porn doesn't tend to employ little dicks). This is problematic when the guy is hideous-looking (I'm quite handsome) or black (I'm not). I've learned to disassociate my performers from my stroke. "Right hand doesn't know what the left," etc. IR porn has made me less racist. 😁 It's fun to watch strangers f*ck.
But you are not that guy, and even less so when in case of IR, when it's blatantly obvious that you're the observer.
You just come off as an incredibly ignorant person. Trying to tell me and others what should turn us on? And then expect a legitimate answer? Go fuck yourself. You find straight porn "lame"? Good for you. Nobody cares.
You can have whatever desires you want, that doesn't make them normal or good. I have a tendency to smell a second time something that smells foul and catches me off guard. It's absurd but i'm not going to stand here and argue it's not.
Yes, by all means being a cuckold IS lame. That's part of the "shtick". The problem is that most men think they are not but by watching porn that's exactly what they are. The have 100% the perspective of the cuck. Watching solo women or virtual pov would not fall in this category as there is no other man involved, it's just you and the actress.
Let me add this to BusterLoads' comment. This topic has been discussed before.There's an existing thread here. Buried down deep in the Talk section. Possibly closed by a moderator. In the previous thread which wasn't too popular, he used the same context. He called us members lame cuckolds and homosexuals. Because we're watching men with erections and also the women. Most of us are paying attention only to the ladies. Imagining like Señor said of being that guy and having a sexual fantasy about the lady. That statement of watching only the ladies didn't sit well with him. This is a second account for this guy. He's apparently new but he's been here before. The result of being banned. Look into this guy's IP Address or whatever you do to stop dual accounts.
If you have that link share it, i am in fact very interested to see that discussion.
You can't have an interest in the lady and ignore the man. He is there and you see and hear him.
Imagine being gay for watching straight porn... insanity.
You're not straight either.. at least BIsexual since your arousal results from seeing women AND men, something you would pretty much never see when you have sex. When you add jerking off, you're much closer to the homosexual side since you're literally stroking a penis to get and stay erect and to ejaculate. Using a flashlight and humping it would be the only way the act would not be homosexual.
maybe he'll be more accepting of this answer.
Because the girl in the video is not my wife or girlfriend, and she's not fucking some guy in my house to humiliate me.
If anything, you should be asking if people feel like peeping toms watching other people have sex.
If you were single in college and you'd like a particular girl (as in want to have sex with you), would you be ok with seeing another man fuck her? It's not about the degree of closeness but rather than your interest in her.
