Honest question: do you ever think of...

[Thomas O'Malley]

Do you ever think of another woman/man, while making love to your own partner?

I'm just wondering if you do, not to judge you, just to know. And if so, what are the reasons? Is it because of the things you're missing with your own partner (let's say big tits)? Or because of the things she doesn't do while you see pornstars doing it? Is it because you believe she doesn't look as good anymore as before? There might be plenty of reasons. The answers are out there...

 

[squallumz]

sometimes. i think thats how it goes. doesnt it?

 

[Emma-Ink]

I have honestly never done this.

 

[Galactic]

Of course! Not right away mind you...in the beginning I'm totally and 100% into her...but come on...after a while, when things have beome, uh, tried and true, shall we say? Natalie Portman never got it so good, know what I mean?

 

[LukeEl]

I like to think that women I sleep with look similar to some porn starlett or actress.

 

[JacknCoke]

I can't think of an instance when I have done this. It just never seems to occur to me I get to caught up in what we are doing.

 

[Roald]

sure why not

 

[CherylFan]

Not usually, no - I usually concentrate on what I`m doing, the sight of her tits bouncing, the feel of her vagina around my cock, etc. I`m more likely to think of someone else -a porn star, a celeb, the girl at work with the big tits - if I`m having a Jay Arthur.

 

[Supafly]

Happens every once in a while. And I am sure the girls have that, too

 

[Thomas O'Malley]

Happens every once in a while. And I am sure the girls have that, too

Oh, I even believe women fantasize even more then men. I just think they don't do it while they are making love to their partner, while men do it more often (but less then women) when they make love.
Just for the record, thanks for the honest answers so far.:thumbsup:
I actually asked this question because I did it once or twice and I wasn't sure if it was, let's say "Freeones-normal" (you all know what I mean by that

 

[lurkingdirk]

I often think of BlueBalls when I have to settle for Stan for the evening.

 

[cindy CD/TV]

Must admit that I have ... however, that was during a threesome when I was with one but thinking of the other partner right beside us

 

[FreeOnes_Anders]

I like to plan dinner and imagine the Lurkinators latest reach around while fornicating.

Thats just how I roll.

 

[Mayhem]

Does thinking of myself count?

 

[FreeOnes_Anders]

Does thinking of myself count?

Thats what the ceiling mirror is there for....

 

[STDiva]

I think of my significant other while I bang other men..err..women.

 

[Alyssa Rose]

I can honestly say I've never thought of anyone else while being with my guy.. Alone.. Yes, mostly Gerard Butler or Joe Manganiello :drool2::drool2:

I'm sure my boyfriend thinks of other women from time to time when were together (or maybe all the time for all I know) but I'm not about to ask him.. That's just not something I want to know lol

**to add a side note:
I'm usually to into the moment when I'm with my guy to think about anyone else.. It's like when it starts to get 'hot and heavy' my main focus is on him and how to make him happy.. Make sense?

 

[STDiva]

My girlfriend yelled out Bruce Banners name once.

 

[Facetious]

Do you ever think of another woman/man, while making love to your own partner?

Yea, during those "dry spells" following the break up of a significant relationship I'd end up stooping to a lower standard of female company, you know, not a lot lower standard, but generally chicks that could tide me over until I found something better.
Having sex with "tide over" g/fs has prompted me to think about the better g/fs I've had... the ones I was foolish enough to let get away, i.e. the "higher maintenance" ladies.

I think that these thoughts are perfectly normal, who doesn't make comparisons from relationship to relationship?



Good & original thread, Mr. O'man! :glugglug:

 

[Jack Davenport]

That would be the same as thinking of spaghetti while eating bacon and eggs.