Good sex is only one small part of a relationship. Even if you go at it like porn stars You Might still only spend 10% of your time together having sex. The other 90 can get pretty tedious if you can't just enjoy hanging out together. Sex will only get you so far, and if you've got nothing else you're doomed to fail.
Great Sex, Crazy Bitch - NEED ADVICE
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Details?
You're coming to this conclusion without giving some details. I'm not questioning your conclusion, but I do want to hear more so I can help you solve your delima. Maybe she's a loon, but maybe that's compatible in a way you haven't seen. Or maybe she's a loon and I'll totally say the sex ain't worth it.
But I need details man! You asked.
Details?
You're coming to this conclusion without giving some details. I'm not questioning your conclusion, but I do want to hear more so I can help you solve your delima. Maybe she's a loon, but maybe that's compatible in a way you haven't seen. Or maybe she's a loon and I'll totally say the sex ain't worth it.
But I need details man! You asked.
Well, here are some examples:
-She calls my house when I specifically tell her not to
-When I am not around my cell phone she will keep calling it until I pick up and tell her to stop(32 missed calls, 12 text messages in a row in 30 minutes time is the record)
-talks about how her life is so bad and that she wants to kill herself, when her life isnt bad at all, she is just a drama queen and I know for a fact she wont do it
-figured out my password for my voicemail and listened to my messages
-told everyone at her job that I cheated on her (I didn't) just so she can get attention
-she gets in a bad mood and takes all out on me when I didnt do anything, but thats every girl I guess
-She calls my house when I specifically tell her not to
-When I am not around my cell phone she will keep calling it until I pick up and tell her to stop(32 missed calls, 12 text messages in a row in 30 minutes time is the record)
-talks about how her life is so bad and that she wants to kill herself, when her life isnt bad at all, she is just a drama queen and I know for a fact she wont do it
-figured out my password for my voicemail and listened to my messages
-told everyone at her job that I cheated on her (I didn't) just so she can get attention
-she gets in a bad mood and takes all out on me when I didnt do anything, but thats every girl I guess
typical girl :wave2:
meesterperfect
Hiliary 2020
Ok .If you read only one response to your post, make it this one.
All you need to do is have control over the situation period.
Thats all.
If the girl does crazy things then you gotta keep a certain distance and maintain the control, because I am assuming you are not crazy.
At least you realize the situation, thats good. I think you know it will someday end, so just don't get involved in any crazy situations.
Do what your doing, stay in control and when the times comes, move on.
Originally Posted by jadium85
Dont know if this is the right place to be posting this, just thought I would get some input from my buddies here at freeones.
Well the title says it all, I got this girl that I am in a relationship with. When we have sex, its fuckin great, I go all night with this chick, multiple times. But heres the problem, she fuckin loony!!! Not all there in the head, not very smart. I guess thats the price I pay for good sex. I dont want a relationship with her but if I cut off the relationship that means I cut off the sex. What should I do?
Thanks
I really don't know what to tell you, other than you are prone to commit the same mistake again.
:2 cents:
Dont know if this is the right place to be posting this, just thought I would get some input from my buddies here at freeones.
Well the title says it all, I got this girl that I am in a relationship with. When we have sex, its fuckin great, I go all night with this chick, multiple times. But heres the problem, she fuckin loony!!! Not all there in the head, not very smart. I guess thats the price I pay for good sex. I dont want a relationship with her but if I cut off the relationship that means I cut off the sex. What should I do?
Thanks
I really don't know what to tell you, other than you are prone to commit the same mistake again.
:2 cents:
Actually my first girlfriend was like that except for the sex part that was just normal. She was "normal" in the beginning but after the first time i broke up she went crazy and start doing similar things. You know when you are 14 its freaking awesome to hear you girlfriend saying that she is pregnant. She started to play those mind games and eventually i took her back. I had the patience to keep up with this crap for about 3 months after that i just started to ignore all the crap and went on.
I still speak to her and she is still as loko as she used to be, she got married 2 times none of them lasted longer then half a year.
If you don't like a girl don't stay with her even if the sex is good but breaking up with a girl like that isn't going to be easy. Its not true that every girl that is good in bed is loony. When a girl isn't that great in bed its the guys job to improve her
. Be a man and take control of your bitchYou might want to check out stand-up comedian Christopher Titus. About half of his material is the comedy and tragedy of his relationships with crazy girlfriends and his parents problems.
"talks about how her life is so bad and that she wants to kill herself, when her life isnt bad at all, she is just a drama queen and I know for a fact she wont do it"
Never ASSUME she won't!
"talks about how her life is so bad and that she wants to kill herself, when her life isnt bad at all, she is just a drama queen and I know for a fact she wont do it"
Never ASSUME she won't!
knew someone was gona say that, trust me my man, shes not going to do it. Shes one of those attention craving girls
she might be crazy, but talk to her, number one thing u gotta do
It's called immaturity ...
It's called immaturity, not crazy. The question is, do you want to try to help her mature, or give her up?
Explain her the value of caring for someone, but following their wishes, and how that's different that caring for someone else in their mind to the point they ignore their wishes.
Right now she's immature, the center of the world is herself and she'll either outgrow it or be pathetic. The majority of people outgrow it. She's probably one that will. Just get her to recognize that life is great and she has it pretty damn good.
If she listens, that's a start. If not, I'd attempt only one more time. If she still doesn't listen, you have your answer. Even if she does listen and say she will change, it will take time before she matures. But at least she will try. If she does not even try, again, you have your answer.
And in that case, switch to honesty. Tell her you want to only fuck her, but not have much to do with her except fucking and going out sometimes (if you enjoy that with her). Be honest. That's all you can do. I mean, tell her how she really hurts you -- repeatedly -- and that's why you don't want to do much other than fuck. But you wish it was different.
It's called immaturity, not crazy. The question is, do you want to try to help her mature, or give her up?
Ask her if she cares about your feelings? If so, she'll respect your wishes. If not, you know she doesn't care about you.
Explain her the value of caring for someone, but following their wishes, and how that's different that caring for someone else in their mind to the point they ignore their wishes.
Ignore it. Many phones can now do such. Turn her ring into a vibrate. Etc... Don't let it affect you.
Have you told her this? Have you told her that how good or bad someone's life is has far more to do with their own perception than reality? Why don't you make a date and be a Big Brother and Big Sister one night together? Let her see how some kids really have it rough.
Right now she's immature, the center of the world is herself and she'll either outgrow it or be pathetic. The majority of people outgrow it. She's probably one that will. Just get her to recognize that life is great and she has it pretty damn good.
Tell her that she violated your privacy. If she can't trust you then why is she with you? Since she can't trust you then what is the relationship?
Instead of focusing on what she said, focus on the lack of privacy she just exposed for herself and you. That issues are between you and her and no one else, regardless of whether they are true or not. If she cannot respect that, then what kind of couple will you be?
Everyone has bad days. The problem is that people should appreciate what they have, not fear what they will lose. Otherwise, you are not enjoying it. Explain this to her.
If she listens, that's a start. If not, I'd attempt only one more time. If she still doesn't listen, you have your answer. Even if she does listen and say she will change, it will take time before she matures. But at least she will try. If she does not even try, again, you have your answer.
And in that case, switch to honesty. Tell her you want to only fuck her, but not have much to do with her except fucking and going out sometimes (if you enjoy that with her). Be honest. That's all you can do. I mean, tell her how she really hurts you -- repeatedly -- and that's why you don't want to do much other than fuck. But you wish it was different.
preciouslili
Official Checked Star Member
Did you just call me crazy????
That's what they call me. Yes, some of us are diffacult out of bed, but WOW! so hot in the bed, car, office bathroom, parking lot. Get my point. (Yin and Yang) Baby.
You can always have two...
That's what they call me. Yes, some of us are diffacult out of bed, but WOW! so hot in the bed, car, office bathroom, parking lot. Get my point. (Yin and Yang) Baby.
You can always have two...
Hell no! Send that bitch on her way.
PirateKing
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Get crazy with her. In fact, out-crazy her.
