goin down on a chick

[Big Phil]

This is gonna sound weird, but i've always recieved and never gave head, the reason for this is that i dont know what to do, so i was wondering if ypu guys out there can help me by pointing me in the right direction, and no offence to any ladies who wanna help but i dont really enjoy the taste mebbe i'll get used to it i dunno but any tips would be great

Thanks!

 

[foxycougar]

First off, every woman tastes different Second, find a woman you're comfortable with and who is comfortable with her own body. The more comfortable she is with herself, the more likely she is to tell you what she likes. Every woman is different so it's just a matter of watching her reaction and listening to the sounds that she makes. And have fun, she's more likely to enjoy it if she knows that you enjoy doing it. I'm sure the fellas on here will give you plenty of tips but I thought maybe a bit of a woman's perspective might be nice.

 

[Ric0chet]

It's difficult to give tips but I KNOW I'm good at it (never had complaints!). A method I dont think you can go wrong with is to slowly lick the clit, dont go at it like a cat and a bowl of milk!

Also don't feel you've not done a decent job if you can't bring them to orgasm- some women take a long time like this. Spend however long you feel comfortable down there, often with me I'm the one told to stop as I can't get enough!!!

Let us know how your first time is and if your feeling a little dangerous why not try the 69 so you will both have the pleasure - best option is women on top so you don't choke her!

Good Luck

 

[Goblin]

Exact opposite for me... always done. Recieved but never very well... Wife REALLY doesn't like the taste/thought and I don't pressure her. Every once and a while I'll ask, but its never good so I think Ive given up on the thought of ever getting a good BJ.

I go down on her because sometimes she has trouble getting ready and I don't like to use Lube or sometimes I feel like romance just isn't what I want. So I help her out a little.

Women don't always like the same thing either. You may find one thing she loves one day and then the next she can't stand it. Like my wife likes to have one finger hooked in there and rubbing just up from the inside. But she recently decided that didn't work anymore.

She still likes to be licked and sucked fast though. And she doesn't always like it right on the clit.

You gotta have a woman thats willing to talk to you really... Do what she wants.

As far as the taste... Get a spearmint. Or one of those strong mints. I don't really taste anything anyways... I always have my wife make sure she is clean down there before we do anything.

 

[Big Phil]

well i cant really test any of these methods at the minute cos im single, but im looking, i just wanna make sure that like, the firs time i do it, i do a good job you know, cos then we might both have a more exciting sex life like be adventurous or whatever. But thanks for the tips, if you ahve any more feel free to add em!

 

[BNF]

IMO Asking men is a mistake. No matter how good they claim to be, or how honest their intentions, you are hearing the info 2nd oor 3rd hand...as it were...

The best advice is to ASK your girlfriend. IMO If you have the openess and honesty to ask her what makes her happy/cum, you will get direct advice and have a lot of fun learning.

I've never met a girl, that I had at least some sort of relationship with (not a one night stand), that didn't find my eagerness and eventual workmanship from her guidance a bigger turn on than me struggling or botching things up - whatever it was.
:tongue: :kiss:

 

[Big Phil]

(sorry about this post it wouldnt let me edit the other)

So, waht your telling me is to explore and watch and listen for a reaction, then work on that area and pay attention to her clit for a while and more-over ask her what she wants? what about fingering aswell cos im not very skilled at that either :o , im really just trying to explore sex now as my ex and I merely had sex because we were both horny, no real fore play or anything, i just want to make my next girlfriend feel special by doing this for her so i dont wanna muck it up.

 

[foxycougar]

The fact that you want to do it at all if awesome. Like I said earlier, just ask her what she likes and pay attention to her reaction to what you're doing.

 

[Big Phil]

Thanks for the tips foxy

I just gotta find a girl now lol.

 

[SovereignAxe]

write the alphabet with your tongue...and if you're gonna use your finger, give a "come hither" motion while doing it.

 

[Dick Hardly]

Tips on eating pussy.

foxycougar is the queen of the FreeOnes message board sex advice! Guys, what would we do without her?

 

[foxycougar]

Tips on eating pussy.

foxycougar is the queen of the FreeOnes message board sex advice! Guys, what would we do without her?

*blushes* You're too sweet! I'm just happy that I might be able to help!

 

[Big Phil]

well if you have any more tips i got 3 weeks of free time before i go to college soo...

And the guy is right you rock foxy

 

[lucky4]

I love to go down on a woman, but i must give you one tip, especially if you haven't went down on her before.

Start at her neck and SLOWLY kiss/lick her all over, as you slowly go down her body. Once you get to the area, slightly below her belly button, take a small, SUTTLE, wiff and if there is a slight odor that you do not like, slowly work your way back north. :shocked:

 

[Big Phil]

Thats an awesome tip man, thanks!!

 

[foxycougar]

wiff and if there is a slight odor that you do not like, slowly work your way back north. :shocked:

LMao...that's great...

 

[ArcticWolf]

, take a small, SUTTLE, wiff and if there is a slight odor that you do not like, slowly work your way back north. :shocked:

LMAO... Advice for the ages.

A tip, don't just go for the gold right away, work your way to it. Tease her, work down the body, along the thigh to her foot and back, just barely miss the pussy, & work the other leg, do that a couple of times. The anticipation will drive her nuts to the point where she will litterally grab your ears & burry your face in her .

 

[Goblin]

Or she'll smack you for tickling her...

 

[titsandass]

Like opening a store is all about location location location, muff diving is all about motion motion motion. Read the girl and give her what she wants. Make sure to tease her lots too. Stop and change kinda. They seem to like teasing us men so why not give it back. I found it works quite well.