just came across this thread, was a chronic masturbater since maybe 15 almost daily. but if need be i could go several days without getting rid of the poison.
2 years ago i started dating this girl and she was very into having sex regularly, not just intercourse but blowjobs, pussy licking,nude massages, one person gets pleased by the other without intercourse, trying different things & positions and it was awesome to have a girl so open like that.
but i noticed the first few weeks of us dating and sexing i would either have trouble keeping it up or i couldn't freaking cum. i was embarrassed but she was ok with it and told me to stop thinking about cumming and having sex and pleasing her and just do what feels good to me. she was adamant about me NOT thinking too much and just focus on her and just letting it happen.
i was getting nervous that i had a testosterone issue,started talking to DR. about the issue, it wasn't cool that i couldn't keep it up or cum with an amazing and hott girl who would do almost anything sexually to me!
i kind of stopped jerking off, started to relax around her and didn't think about "oh no am i going to be able to keep it hard and/or cum" i just went with the flow and within days i was cumming and having unbelievable sex with this fucking girl .
i think the masturbation hindered the feeling of having a pussy or mouth on my dick and i have kind of curtailed the jerking off.
i dunno what that had to do with this thread but i figured i would share.
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ALSO ...... does anyone have any different kinds of jerking tips using different items for a better sensation? i've always only used my hand and sometimes lube but short of buying a sex toy masturbater does anyone have a home style way of making something?