Girlfriend says she doesn't feel like having sex; Is it alright to start offering money for it?

[Deepcover]

@Jinxipie:yummie:

 

[Death-Proof-69]

I do agree with this but I also somewhat agree with the exchange for sex. I wouldn't want money in exchange for sex in my relationship, but something like a massage. I don't get enough massages and I have some serious neck problems that cause me headaches every single day. And in my current relationship, I never, ever reach orgasm. Ever. But he always does, of course. So seeing as sex isn't great for me, also considering that he almost always gets anal (which bothers me sometimes, it's the only way he gets off anymore, so my vag doesn't get much attention at all), I am very rarely in the mood for it. Maybe once a month, maybe less. It's sad, really. If sex was good for me, I would be in the mood more often.

may i ask what this chump's redeeming qualities happen to be? cause unless he's amazing at everything else sounds like you deserve better...


anyway, sounds like dude in OP's scenario should invest in one of them mail order brides in Dino Velvets thread

 

[averageJoe]

Sometimes it feels like it, buying her stuff she doesn't need all the time!

 

[averageJoe]

I do agree with this but I also somewhat agree with the exchange for sex. I wouldn't want money in exchange for sex in my relationship, but something like a massage. I don't get enough massages and I have some serious neck problems that cause me headaches every single day. And in my current relationship, I never, ever reach orgasm. Ever. But he always does, of course. So seeing as sex isn't great for me, also considering that he almost always gets anal (which bothers me sometimes, it's the only way he gets off anymore, so my vag doesn't get much attention at all), I am very rarely in the mood for it. Maybe once a month, maybe less. It's sad, really. If sex was good for me, I would be in the mood more often.

WHOA! Thats BS. Maybe it is just me, but that signals a huge relationship problem to me. It is just as important for me to please the woman as it is myself. I try very hard to male sure she is turned on, wet, and orgasms at least once. It's very important for her to enjoy it too. That turns me on more than anything. I have a hard time getting off unless I know she already has. And faking it doesn't work, I can tell.

 

[RichardNailder]

Offer her a few hundred bucks - and if she takes it accuse her of being a whore then throw her out.

 

[bobjustbob]

Most women are smarter than her. Have the sex and the next morning ask for money to buy an outfit.

 

[JasonCook78]

My wife goes nuts when I buy her shit, she loves the animal print and so do I. She wears a leopard print teddy instead of a nightie and she doesn't care if I tit-fuck her when she sleeps because when she wakes up in morning and see's the man juice on her tits, it makes her horny. So really dump that bitch and get a girlfriend whose like my wife.

 

[Will E Worm]

Scenario:

The guy comes home after saving people from a burning old people home, he's won $7 million and he has been watching Beach Volleyball on TV for 19 hours straight. He comes home to his girlfriend horny as shit and says "I want some sexing" or something romantic like that. She says "Nah, I'm just not feeling it." or "I don't feel sexy" or "No, today I saw a homeless guy die so definitely not in the mood"

Should the guy start offering some money for sex? If so, what's a good starting price?

Is this you or is this just a "what if"?

Turning her into a prostitute is not a good idea.

Christian couples counseling, find a preacher. :angels:

 

[zeeblofowl_1969]

Is this you or is this just a "what if"?

Turning her into a prostitute is not a good idea.

Christian couples counseling, find a preacher. :angels:

Why so the preacher can violate your privacy and fleece you out of a meal???? Parasites.......

 

[PirateKing]

Go out and fuck another ho. Problem solved.

 

[gloyster]

She can use her hand.