so if you're a guy, how do you usually approach a girl about being friends with benefits? how do you find out if a girl is interested in this kind of stuff without looking like a pervert or somethin. any advice? thanks.
fuck buddies
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It happens on it's own dude. It's very rare for "fuck buddy" to be the intended role on a woman's part, i.e. you usually can't meet a girl and say "hey, you wanna be fuck buddies". What you have to do is bite the bullet and at least act like you're interested in dating her. Then if she appreciates the sex, You Might be able to make that the focal point of your interaction with her. Next thing you know, boom- you're fuck buddies and she hardly even knew it.
Until quite recently I had a perfect fuck buddy. A little older, financially secure, and fucked like a wildcat. We had dated previously but we broke up because I basically felt *********. The sex between us was incredible, though, and we kept it up for a while until she basically said she couldn't keep it up without the emotional commitment. That's human nature man and I understood and respected her position. I will miss that dearly, though. We did things that you usually only find in German movies.
Good luck but you usually don't find a fuck buddy by seeking it out, it just happens.
Until quite recently I had a perfect fuck buddy. A little older, financially secure, and fucked like a wildcat. We had dated previously but we broke up because I basically felt *********. The sex between us was incredible, though, and we kept it up for a while until she basically said she couldn't keep it up without the emotional commitment. That's human nature man and I understood and respected her position. I will miss that dearly, though. We did things that you usually only find in German movies.
Good luck but you usually don't find a fuck buddy by seeking it out, it just happens.
Iamforever
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i dont fuck my buddies. ive wanted to for a long time, but i dont think they swing that way. 
dave_rhino
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I have a fuck buddy right now. Just some chick from work whos crazy over me... But i told her from the begining i didnt't see her in that way, but i said i'd still fuck her
I dunno if she counts though, coz shes not my "buddy". I rarely even talk to her.
I dunno if she counts though, coz shes not my "buddy". I rarely even talk to her.
Even better. That may be the purest definition of "fuck buddy". Apparently, that's all you do.
alexpnz
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i got an ugly chick at work who justs asks me to let her blow me!
thats it! no strings!
we just go out to a company vehicle or stop at a hotel when we work together and she sucks me off and lets me blast her in the face!
all i did was ask if i could cum on her face and she just said ok!!
btw............10 yrs younger than me,lives w/a dude of another race and has a *** w/ him!!
...................but were hardly buddies!!
thats it! no strings!
we just go out to a company vehicle or stop at a hotel when we work together and she sucks me off and lets me blast her in the face!
all i did was ask if i could cum on her face and she just said ok!!
btw............10 yrs younger than me,lives w/a dude of another race and has a *** w/ him!!
...................but were hardly buddies!!
dave_rhino
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Sounds like a pretty sweet deal. Cept for the "ugly" though... :1orglaugh
Just keep your guard up, incase this guy she lives with finds out:thumbsup:
dave_rhino
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alexpnz
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.......forgot to mention..........she does this with 2 other dudes i know of that work w/ me!
truth be told i dont think the guy shes lives w/ gives a **** about her,i think he knows what she does! im sure he does the same too!!
shes just an average chick w/ low self esteem who likes cock!!
and im just an average dude w/ a small cock whos happy to have a chick let me blast her in the face!!
dave_rhino
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im just an average dude w/ a small cock whos happy to have a chick let me blast her in the face!!
YEAH! MEDIOCRITY!
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Good points, I agree.
I think the best sex and relationships come from meeting someone you really get along with, a friendship that grows, then evolves into sex. Friends first, benefits later. Much more rewarding, fun and exciting I think. Having great sex with a woman who is really your friend, or better, your best friend can't be beat. Look for women that you like and get along with naturally as friends, then take it from there.
Much easier then trying to think up some "****er pick up line", or something of the sort. Real relationships in the real world are much more complicated then that.
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Gagging reflexes! :jester:
Ok guys get this....my wife and i recently seperated, and she starts dating one of my frineds (yes that sucks big time, makes for a very awkward situation), and she says that they just started as FWB, and i warned her that is a dangerous thing to do and that someone is going to wind up getting hurt, and lo and behold she tells me shes starting to fall for him, and i dont think its mutual. This guy has a tendency to use people and my (soon to be ex) wife is far from his type, i dont doubt they feel something for each other, i just see this as not ending well for one or both of them, even though they have been friends for sometime, with his checkered past, i dont see this as anything more than someone to fuck on his part. So all im saying is be careful what you wish for.
Iamforever
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wait. your friend is fucking your soon to be ex? what kind of friend is that? he deserves a kick in the mouth.
Yup he does, my side of the bed wasnt even cold yet and he just moved right on in, oh did i mention he is living there with her too? Yeaaaaahhhhhh
