But the time we live in could be changed if we started to actually shift away from what I've called the "asshole paradigm" at long last. People have, for some time now, thought it necessary to sacrifice politeness, fairness, caring, and sharing for "coolness" and the need to look tough and act like an asshole.
I've actually started doing a lot more friendly things when in public. Haven't thrown out any free hugs, but these days, I've been a lot more prone to engage people in conversation, hold doors, offer change, etc. One thing I've noticed has seemed to brighten my day is to brighten someone else's .
The easiest is a cashier somewhere. I'm usually very friendly and happy when I deal with them, just knowing that their job is monotonous, boring, and often filled with nasty people to deal with. It's nice when a cashier's eyes light up because of how I've treated them.
Life's too short to have a bunch of people running around acting like bad-asses 24/7.
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I totally agree with you and I like to think that I am polite but I think maybe it's a British thing being reserved (when sober