A lot of you can pretend you don't care who the guy is so you don't get labelled as gay, but it does make a difference to a scene. It's obviously better to watch a scene where the girl actually likes the guy and is, seemingly at least, enjoying it.
:thumbsup: You are spot on with the girl liking the guy making a difference. Which leads me to ...
Manuel Ferrara usually does great scenes, esp. those that he directs himself, and deserves to be mentioned here.
All the scenes I've seen with him have made me think that I could be watching a high-quality amateur couple video. Do yourself a favor and check out Katsumi's scene with him if you haven't yet.
Funny, I agreed with the posts in the instant turn-off thread that the lesser men make themselves noticeable the better. And yet I like Manuel because he whispers in the girl's ear, holds them close and kisses them. Basically, he fucks with passion and how most real couples would and I like that. And most of the girls he performs with seem to as well because they actually look genuinely interested and turned on.