Spexy,
as it isn't really a question, moved from your ask you anything board to here...
am sad your Holiday was not happy at least. And am impressed at your perspective and hope for the coming year's holiday. I hope you enjoy a wonderful 2011 including next Christmas season. The time and honest thought you put into the questions, and the patience with which you deal with the inane, overly personal, & too confrontational ?'s is impressive.
So I hope you're having fun and finding success, and look forward to seeing more of your answers while we wait for things to warm up!
Regards (& good luck for the Miss FreeOnes results... enjoy the party)
RA