FaceBook Deleting People Etiquette

[Ken Kaniff]

Was wondering, what is people's thoughts on trying to pickup women on facebook, and if they reject and/or don't reply to you, you reply to delete and perhaps block them.

For example, sometimes I message females about hanging out with the intention of dating. Some of these females are taken and have a boyfriend, but I still message anyway. Then they usually don't say anything back. I let this "silence" go on for about a week, after which point I usually choose to delete them.

I have to admit, sometimes I have asked out girls for several weeks, and they just dont say any reply back. And then finally I end up blocking and deleting them.

Couple points about me: I know this post sounds desperate, but I actually get a lot of quality girls. Ive had a lot of successful relationships with attractive women. But at the same time, Im always horny, and Im always trying to pick up new ones.

What do people think about this behaviour and how do women view it? Guys asking you out, then you reject or dont reply, then guy blocks and deletes you.

 

[Ken Kaniff]

I also do pickups in real life as well!

 

[Briana Lee]

Honestly if they don't reply to your first message you should take that as a rejection and leave them alone. To keep messaging them like that is kinda weird and once you do actually stop and block them they are probably relieved about it......

And to message a girl that already has a boyfriend is pretty rude as well....

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

My brother met his now wife through Facebook. Just sayin...it CAN happen but yeah, messaging girls who are taken is douchetastic beyond belief.

 

[Ken Kaniff]

OK, but even messaging a girl who is single and asking her to hang out. You message her a couple times asking to hang out and no reply.

Meanwhile, she likes some of your statuses on FaceBook.

So then you message her back asking to hang out for a date, and once again no reply.

I got angry with this so I ended up deleting her. In my opinion she was interested in me.

I get angry and offended when females don't reply to my messages and I usually end up deleting and blocking them.

In fact, I dont ever get rejected. I just get no reply.

As I said, dont mean to brag, but I am a good looking guy and I do have a lot of ex girlfriends.

 

[Ken Kaniff]

My brother met his now wife through Facebook. Just sayin...it CAN happen but yeah, messaging girls who are taken is douchetastic beyond belief.

Oh really, like did they have mutual friends? he just messaged her out of nowhere asking to hang out?

 

[Briana Lee]

OK, but even messaging a girl who is single and asking her to hang out. You message her a couple times asking to hang out and no reply.

Meanwhile, she likes some of your statuses on FaceBook.

So then you message her back asking to hang out for a date, and once again no reply.

I got angry with this so I ended up deleting her. In my opinion she was interested in me.

I get angry and offended when females don't reply to my messages and I usually end up deleting and blocking them.

In fact, I dont ever get rejected. I just get no reply.

As I said, dont mean to brag, but I am a good looking guy and I do have a lot of ex girlfriends.

No reply = Rejected

Just so you know.....

And just because she likes a status on Facebook doesn't mean she's looking for a relationship with you. She just agrees with what you are saying....

 

[Ken Kaniff]

Also, if these girls really didnt want to hang out with me wouldn't they have deleted me?

I messaged one girl nonstop (about 10 or 15 times) for about 2 months asking for a date. She liked some of my statuses as well.

She didnt delete me. She just made no reply.

Eventually I got angry and deleted her. I think she was interested but maybe wanted me to show her something I wasnt? Anyways, Im not going to play those games.

 

[Ken Kaniff]

just because she likes a status on Facebook doesn't mean she's looking for a relationship with you. She just agrees with what you are saying....

yes I totally agree.

But when a guy asks you out for one month in 5 or 6 different messages. No reply. Then you start liking some of his statuses. Thats kind of like flirting. Or atleast teasing him don't you think?

She also wrote some statuses on her own facebook that I believe were directed at me. She used to say things like "Guys need to show women how they are different before getting a date" etc.

 

[JasonCook78]

Do not wait to see if she confirms your friend request just assume that she confirmed and move on, don't even care if she confirms it or not, so basically just don't give a fuck. Just message her and be polite say hi and be normal just use your normal pick up game that should work.

 

[twat36975248664224]

I've met a couple of my girlfriends through Facebook and if they don't message you back chances are they aren't interested in you. They might be one of those people that will add you for the number of friends they have. You can try to message them once a month and if you don't hear back for three months I'd delete them if you want. Because then it is clear they have no interest in talking to you.

 

[luis1972]

It's your option, I prefer the real world....

 

[dirtylittleholly]

I don't think you should message girls who are already in a relationship. Even if they aren't really in one and just put that on their profile, it's probably because they aren't interested in dating atm. If they don't reply to your first message, don't continue to contact them. If they were interested, they'd reply. I don't see a problem with unfriending/blocking them if they don't write back to you after a week or so.

 

[Bloodshot Scott]

Ken Kaniff from Connecticut

 

[StanScratch]

Not every woman on Facebook is looking for a relationship with every guy there. Some are actually there for friendships. I have quite a few female friends on there who are friends...I'll even message them, without asking to hang out.

 

[dominoxxx]

Honestly if they don't reply to your first message you should take that as a rejection and leave them alone. To keep messaging them like that is kinda weird and once you do actually stop and block them they are probably relieved about it......

And to message a girl that already has a boyfriend is pretty rude as well....

This, this, and this. Don't do it - you just look like a desperate douche. And why block them if they haven't done anything really rude? It just makes you look insecure.

 

[Harley Spencer]

OK, but even messaging a girl who is single and asking her to hang out. You message her a couple times asking to hang out and no reply.

Meanwhile, she likes some of your statuses on FaceBook.

So then you message her back asking to hang out for a date, and once again no reply.

I got angry with this so I ended up deleting her. In my opinion she was interested in me.

I get angry and offended when females don't reply to my messages and I usually end up deleting and blocking them.

In fact, I dont ever get rejected. I just get no reply.

As I said, dont mean to brag, but I am a good looking guy and I do have a lot of ex girlfriends.

Hmmm.... I think we know why they're exes.

 

[bobjustbob]

If you have no problem finding women in the real world then don't bother with Facebook. Spend that time out there instead of behind a keyboard getting frustrated.

 

[Savage WereWolf]

Ken Kaniff from Connecticut

Ah damn you beat me to it.

 

[squallumz]

my faith in humanity, has taken yet, another blow.