eye-candy?

how important is looks to you?

  • 1; doesn't matter at all

    Votes: 2 3.9%
  • 2

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 3

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 4

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 5

    Votes: 4 7.8%
  • 6

    Votes: 9 17.6%
  • 7

    Votes: 8 15.7%
  • 8

    Votes: 13 25.5%
  • 9

    Votes: 5 9.8%
  • 10; very important

    Votes: 10 19.6%

  • Total voters
    51
how do your mate feel about you looking at other people?
men; how do your girlfriend or wife feel about you looking at other women?
women; how do your boyfriend or husband feel about you looking at other men?


my wife has no problem with me looking at other women...she knows thats as far as its going to go...she knows i'm not going to cheat on her.
for you women that have a problem with this, look at it this way; would you rather have your mate get horny looking at halle berry then have sex with you, or would you rather have him get horny looking at you then go have sex with halle? not saying that it takes another to get me horny(my wife turns me on more than any other woman in the world), i'm just using that situation as an example.
how does your mate feel about you looking at other people?
 
I never "look" I use the periferrals man! She probably knows that I'm doin it though. And hasn't ever made a big deal about it. As for when she looks at other guys...I just ignore it because I know at the end of the day, Shes only horny for me:D
 
I never "look" I use the periferrals man! She probably knows that I'm doin it though. And hasn't ever made a big deal about it. As for when she looks at other guys...I just ignore it because I know at the end of the day, Shes only horny for me:D

being as "real" as i am, i can't stand peeking...i rather keep it "real" and just look...if i get in trouble for it(which i won't because i already explained it to her before i ever did it)i'll handle it.
 
i dont mind it when the girls looks at other guys as long as i know she's faithful, i do it all the time, why cant she do it too? god created some juicy piece of meat and i want her to enjoy.
 
As far as I'm concerned, my hubby to be can look at all the fantasy material he wants:D By that I mean porn stars, movie stars, singers. I don't mind, in fact we have the same taste in beautiful women:D Now if my hubby to be was drooling over a woman he knew/ saw in RL, then I'd get a lil' jealous. He knows why. lol

Second, how does he feel about me looking at male eyecandy? I don't think he minds. *looks around for drdeath* He certainly doesn't me viewing some female eyecandy:D
 
I think that if there is enough trust in a couple, as in mine, there is no problem at all if either is looking at another. I know I can't stop myself looking at a good looking girl and as long as I'm the one getting in bed with my girlfriend, she can watch anyone she wants... guys or girls I don't mind...
 
She can look because I know she won't touch.
As for guys looking at her they can look just as long as they don't try to touch.

Me I have an occasional look but nothing major.
 
The hottest women ...

Are those that remind me of my wife. So "as far as it goes" -- it gets me fucking hot for me to lay my wife. If a woman doesn't remind me of my wife in at least some way, I almost never find her attractive.

As far as the poll, I'm a 10. I won't settle for anything less but the most beautiful of women. Of course, what I consider a 9 or 10 is what others might consider a 3 or 4. See past polls including mine on Cassandra.
 
shit i look at everyone hot or not just look a little longer at the hot ones. as far as my wife goes i point them out to her, guys i mean for her to look at. i am secure and so is she so we know we are who is in our bed.
 
As far as I'm concerned, my hubby to be can look at all the fantasy material he wants:D By that I mean porn stars, movie stars, singers. I don't mind, in fact we have the same taste in beautiful women:D Now if my hubby to be was drooling over a woman he knew/ saw in RL, then I'd get a lil' jealous. He knows why. lol

Second, how does he feel about me looking at male eyecandy? I don't think he minds. *looks around for drdeath* He certainly doesn't me viewing some female eyecandy:D
She's right I mean we both give each other a PLAYFUL hard time about certain people but it's all in good fun! We have a mutual agreement on many many things!:hatsoff:
 

Torre82

Moderator \ Jannie
Staff member
Very important. Why wouldnt it be, honestly? I used to like ugly gals. They were beautiful precisely because they spend more time on their minds than their makeup. Still, they all got complexes along the way and.. it all comes down to the lottery of greatness. Roll the dice, see if you get a gem or a weapon of bush destruction.

I have my diamond, whuzzabout you?
 
Not so important....
 
Im new here but have to say my wife knows I look at other women. She knows how much I love the look of women & it's the simple things that catch my eyes! A nice ass in some perfect fit jeans. A woman with a purdy face & natural hot look is a big + to me. Bottom line is if you have a ass girls...........I LOVE YA!
 
it's 50/50 with me - personality is important, but if i can't hold eye contact for very long i don't get to find out if they've got one!
 
The more they remind me of my wife ...

The more they remind me of my wife, the more important they are to me in my view.
If I ever run into Devyn Devine, I'll have to avoid dropping to the floor and worshiping her like I do my wife. ;)
 
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sputnikgirl

Guest
I don't look at other men - just other women. That being said, my boyfriend doesn't mind. He knows I've always been bi, and that aspect of me isn't going to change. He knows I'm not going to leave him for another woman.
 
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