Ever had a 3some?

O85

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Have you?

My girlfriend brought it up that we should get toghether with her friend and her boyfriend tommorow night, and I think it might feel a little weird as i know them both quite well. My girlfriends birthday is tommorow, and we will all go out and im presuming when we return then we will get toghether, she is going to be 30, and I just wanted to spend a night with her alone but seems she wants company.

Have any of you experienced anything like this?
 

member006

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Nope, and never will. I don't share and I certainly don't care to be with a man that would want to share me. :( That would hurt my "itty bitty" feelings. I'm not that open.

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slowhand

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Nope never had a 3 some and never will.
 
never been in a threesome, a foursome on the other hand........

My girl is open to a threesome though and thank god she prefers another girl into the game too, so maybe soon :D
 
Have you?

My girlfriend brought it up that we should get toghether with her friend and her boyfriend tommorow night, and I think it might feel a little weird as i know them both quite well. My girlfriends birthday is tommorow, and we will all go out and im presuming when we return then we will get toghether, she is going to be 30, and I just wanted to spend a night with her alone but seems she wants company.

Have any of you experienced anything like this?


My first response to that is people who do that are bored with each other and should find someone else. I'd rather find someone I really liked and do a two-some exclusively. If I have to spend another day on Earth with another boring person, I think suicide looks appealing.
 
My first response to that is people who do that are bored with each other and should find someone else. I'd rather find someone I really liked and do a two-some exclusively. If I have to spend another day on Earth with another boring person, I think suicide looks appealing.

I don't agree, I am not complaining about my personal sexlife at all and neither is my girlfriend (as far as I know lol). Doing a threesome is just something exciting in our opinion and just a fun addition to a good sexlife.

However if you are going to do it you must be realy strong as from what I hear a lot of people get jealous and stuff and things might turn out bad ;)
 
Just not for me. I imagine it is very straining on a relationship or has to be very superficial.
 
I've had threesomes. With another guy added (no sex between me and the other guy though:pukey:) and with another girl added. For me, they tend to only work if no one really cares that much about each other. Everyone has to be in it just for the sex. Superficial, as stated above. In my experience, threesomes don't work if any of the participants are in a stable relationship. I only tried that once. I was dating a girl seriously and we had her really close female friend join with us one time. It turned out that my girlfriend wound up hating it and the friend loved it. The friend kept wanting to join in with us again, and it wound up that it became too annoying for my gf to handle and she told her friend off one day, and severed her friendship with her. We continued to date with no real problem, but my gf lost her friend over it.
 
I'm in agreement with senob. I've done two threesomes (both mff), but both were purely for sport. I'd never consider having one that involved someone I had an emotional bond with.
 
One time a friend of mine asked if I knew anyone (female) who would be interested in joining her and her man.

Couldn't think of anyone, but anyhoo...

I told her at the time that she has to be 100% certain that both she and her man are prepared for ANYTHING that happens. It has been my experience, both reading and from other friends, that most threesomes do NOT end well. The guy goes for the wrong girl, etc.
 
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sputnikgirl

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My rules about threesomes:
1. With nobody I know or nobody he knows
2. Only in a foreign country where prostitution is at least a somewhat regulated industry

If I were you, I wouldn't go for the friends thing. Everyone I know who has been in a threesome with friends has ended up with misunderstandings and hurt feelings. I don't care if my bf wants to have a threesome, but we have an understanding that it's with a professional, and a "special occasion" thing.
 

Violator79

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No for me. My biggest fear is if it ever happened and I was with a girl, she would leave me for the other girl. Now if it's a one time thing, hell yes I'd do it.
 

rian_evilclown

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nope, but id like too... but i couldnt do it with someone i was serious about.

i got offered an oppurtunity at a mmf threesome once but turned it down cos the guy was a twat.
 
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