... with your wife! Man, I just don't understand these responses ...
But maybe I'm just "fucked up"?
I don't know about you guys, but after 10 years of marriage (and I've been with the same woman 13 years now, 3 before I married her), I find monogamy a major aphrodisiac. If I see another woman I find beautiful, it's typically because she sports the best features of my wife. I go home and focus on those when I make love to her.
My wife and I play games. We role play constantly. Much of our role playing isn't about cheating, but it's about fucking each other in front of others, or being married, or something else that has really nothing to do with cheating. It's really about looking at each other differently than "boring husband and wife."
One game I really like is when she tells me not to cum in her and to pull out, like she was a one-night stand and I didn't want to wear a condom. She playfully fights me as I unload in her.
A major role-play as of late is her wearing a string-tie bikini. It started about 2 years ago when I tit and vaginally fucked her on the beach (really, on the beach in the Florida keys). I like to drop her string-tie bikini bottom and then immediately put myself in her before she knows I've dropped them (although I always ensure she's very wet).
And God knows there's lots of "teasing" you can do in private and public. I've taken her to a movie, to an opera, and just "pushed" my boner in my pants against her, up against a wall, on a spur of the moment when no one was looking. If I'm really turned on and creaming in my pants, I'll go to the bathroom when at a restaurant, take off my underwear and bring them back to the table, passing them to her underneath. She's done similarly.
Sometimes just a nice picnic is all I need. One of the most enticing cases was when she pulled out a banana, and started talking about how thick and curved my cock was about the banana. She just started playing with her top and wouldn't let me touch or even kiss (damn, I hate it when she won't let me kiss!).
And when's the last time you actually spent a full hour kissing? Just kissing?! Get on the couch, fully clothed, kneel over her, and just start the oral engagement. Don't let her touch your cock, don't touch her breasts, just kiss and caress everywhere
but the pleasure points.
Hell, just surprise her by meeting her at work, at the store, etc... sometime. Oogle her from across the room, like you had eye contact for the first time. I love to do that! Especially when others are watching -- who don't know we are married!
