Do You Care About The Other Guy or Girl

Dose it make you upset

  • Yes

    Votes: 10 25.0%
  • No

    Votes: 30 75.0%

  • Total voters
    40
  • Poll closed .
Unless the other guy was the scum of the Earth when she was with them where it made me question things in her past or her judgment, I probably wouldn't care. Then again I probably wouldn't get together with somebody I had serious doubts about in the first place so that situation probably would never happen.
 

Kingfisher

Here Zombie, Zombie, Zombie...
People have had sex, the person your with has done things with other people. Try not to think about it. But if one person is flaunting photographic evidence or otherwise to the person they're with, then there's an issue. If they're still in contact with that person, you are not in a relationship.
 
What is this coworker doing with a photo of his GF's ex on his work computer? Can you say STALKERSTALKERSTALKER?

Tell your coworker to keep his mind on more important matters like getting laid and meeting the company's sales quota for the month:eek::cool::yesyes:
 

Skyraider22

The One and Only Big Daddy
What is this coworker doing with a photo of his GF's ex on his work computer? Can you say STALKERSTALKERSTALKER?

Tell your coworker to keep his mind on more important matters like getting laid and meeting the company's sales quota for the month:eek::cool::yesyes:

You know what I think I will:rofl2:Good stuff
 
If she's not still fucking the guy or cares about the guy, why does he care??? More importantly, why does he have the guy's flick on his computer???

Sounds like this guy has more of an obsession problem than anything else.

If his ego is so fragile that he can't stand the thought of a chick he's going out with not being a virgin, then he probably needs an intervention IMO.
 

Skyraider22

The One and Only Big Daddy
If she's not still fucking the guy or cares about the guy, why does he care??? More importantly, why does he have the guy's flick on his computer???

Sounds like this guy has more of an obsession problem than anything else.

If his ego is so fragile that he can't stand the thought of a chick he's going out with not being a virgin, then he probably needs an intervention IMO.

Maybe because he is young he is only 20 don't get me wrong I'm 27 and still young but something like that does not bother me you can't change the past but I guess you live you learn:dunno:
 
Here's a tip for all of you who wanted to know: (keep in mind this is one girl's opinion)
As far as ladies are concerned, we are very bitchy and catty...I don't want to run into my lover's former partners. I hate it hate it hate it! I have a very deep deep sense of jealousy and can't stand thinking that she might, for an instant be thinking of that other girl when she's with me or comparing me to her. Its so bad it's debilitating :helpme: and I know it affects my relationships but I can't help it. I keep wondering about stuff they did and I get my stomach tied up in knots.
One fomer girlfriend of mine had an ex that lived in the same apt. complex and I have to say that every time I saw this girl I wanted to pull her hair out and knock a few teeth out of her pretty smile. :fight:
On the flip side when you're with me, and we are in sync I give so much to the relationship trying to impress that you won't have time to think about anyone else!
I guess mark me down for: cares too much about the other girl (occasional guy)! And tries too hard to overcompensate. My relationships tend to hit full throtle quickly, redline and then blow up. But I'm telling you your first few weeks or months with me and I will be the "other" that you compare all future partners with!:D
 
Maybe because he is young he is only 20 don't get me wrong I'm 27 and still young but something like that does not bother me you can't change the past but I guess you live you learn:dunno:

I have a few more years on you guys and it sounds to me like there's a little more history there than meets the eye.

Sounds to me like she either cheated on him with the guy or she gave up some gory details that may have him feeling a little "insecure".

Tell him to either get over it, get a new girl or get an ulcer.:2 cents:
 

Skyraider22

The One and Only Big Daddy
I have a few more years on you guys and it sounds to me like there's a little more history there than meets the eye.

Sounds to me like she either cheated on him with the guy or she gave up some gory details that may have him feeling a little "insecure".

Tell him to either get over it, get a new girl or get an ulcer.:2 cents:

You know what I did not think about that it could be.Nice touch at the end get an ulcer
 
Sooner or later he must come to terms with the fact that she also has past.

It's not likely to find girl who have just been waiting for you for all her life.
 
I don't care it was before me.
 
I Care less about that situation....Word Up....Life's too short for that anywayz...
 

squallumz

knows petras secret: she farted.
it totally depends on the situation. was he a dick to her, abusive, fucked her over. that shit will piss me off. it also depends on how u feel about the girl you're with. i mean, do you like her, or love her, or really fucking love her. it all depends.
 
The guy may be a douchebag and you may hate him...but she is with you now. Is that not satisfying enough?

I wouldn't care if the guy had an enormous dong, gave her 1000 orgasms and was a millionaire. She left him...and now she's with you. You win.


Great post, and it is how I feel. I never think about the guys who came before me, I'm just completely happy having her affections for myself in the present time.
 
My take on this is, if you are not still dating your elementary sweetheart, then chances are your girlfriend has had sex before with someone other than yourself. So there is really no need to get mad over it, just a fact that everyrone has to learn to live with.
 
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