do women control sex

[squallumz]

are we talking about getting it or during it?

getting it? kinda. but not totally. there are things men can do to loosen the grip on the precious. havent you ever got your girl all amped up and she wanted you so bad? if it can be done once, it can be done again. guys are usually too dumb to work it but it can be done.

if youre talking during it, obviously it goes both ways.

 

[nolefan]

are we talking about getting it or during it?

getting it? kinda. but not totally. there are things men can do to loosen the grip on the precious. havent you ever got your girl all amped up and she wanted you so bad? if it can be done once, it can be done again. guys are usually too dumb to work it but it can be done.

if youre talking during it, obviously it goes both ways.

getting

 

[Roughneck]

Women want to fuck like crazy jack rabbits just as much as men do.

The "mechanism" of the sex drive maybe different - but the notion that women are any less hornier than men is a myth.



As with all things relating to sex, how we "perceive" such attitudes depends a lot on the mores and morals of the surrounding environment [e.g.: Man having multiple partners = stud. Woman having multiple partners = slut].

cheers,

 

[Iamforever]

women DO NOT control sex. but, they sure make it worth while though. :thumbsup:

 

[dick van cock]

Woman don't control sex, they just control when and if you get to have it

I'm in control when and if Mrs. van Cock gets to have it... I'm in control.

Seriously! The person who needs it less in a relationship controls the frequency. In our case, I'm in charge.

 

[SacramentLoG]

Yea they do control sex, as in when, where, if your gonna get any! It's total bullshit IMHO! But at the same time, it's best men don't control that, as Clam said...nobody would ever get anything done! Not to mention, the worlds population would be completely out of control!

exactly what I thought.

 

[slowhand]

Nope women don't control sex.


But its great when they do control sex in bed I like that sometimes. :thumbsup:

 

[bigbadbrody]

That's the same thing as far as I'm concerned.

that is control

I guess the man and the woman both control different aspects of sex. The man can be in control during sex, bu the woman is the one who says when, where and when the man gets to have the sex

 

[trickster223]

Quite obviously yes.

 

[dave_rhino]

If your woman controls when, where, and how you have sex, get a new woman.

You should have as much power as they do.

 

[minidog]

lets not argue
http://i15.tinypic.com/4qncxv6.jpg

 

[bigbadbrody]

If your woman controls when, where, and how you have sex, get a new woman.

You should have as much power as they do.

100% true

 

[member006]

They shouldn't. I think it should be 50/50 really. Although I'm sure the majority of woman control it and use that control factor to their benefit. No detail, but years ago once when I reached out for my ex husband during an odd time/situation he spoke of a conversation he and his buddies at work had. Seems one of the guys was complaining of always having to be the initiator with his wife. If he didn't reach for her, there was no reaching. Then telling me the fact that I was spontaneous and always made him feel needed was appreciated.

I remember a guy here not so long ago (don't remember where) posted here about women that just lay there during sex. *rolls eyes* I can't even imagine such a thing. Guys don't let them use it as a tool to get what they want and if she lays there offer her some advice. If somethings wrong tell her how you feel, communication is the key. Don't keep it in letting the feelings/anger fester, when that boil eventually breaks it will be nasty.

My long winded point is that in my opinion its a shared responsibility. That requires handling with respect and the understanding that nobody should ever be on a "drop your pants" on demand type mind set. Then again no one person should control the where and when. Each situation different and worked out at the time of onset between the two of you.

LL

 

[hedonis]

lets not argue
http://i15.tinypic.com/4qncxv6.jpg

And immediately, the class of the pictured woman's character is revealed... :thumbsup:

I don't know, we have a great sexual partnership at my house. We've been together 6 years, and we can still surprise each other. Nobody has claimed the throne or the power for it.

H