So, i was talking with my g/f about incorporating a toy into our sex. Basically she wants to use a dildo (somewhat life-like, i.e., not just a glass stick, lol). I'm about 5 1/2"-6" on a really good day, and about 5" in circumference. She said she wants to try a 8" dildo with 6" in circumference. She said she doesn't have a problem taking me at all. Does anyone know, would this be a good size to start at? Too small? Too big? I think she also liked the idea of trying the 9 3/4" one. Just looking to pick all your brains. Thanks everyone!