So, i was talking with my g/f about incorporating a toy into our sex. Basically she wants to use a dildo (somewhat life-like, i.e., not just a glass stick, lol). I'm about 5 1/2"-6" on a really good day, and about 5" in circumference. She said she wants to try a 8" dildo with 6" in circumference. She said she doesn't have a problem taking me at all. Does anyone know, would this be a good size to start at? Too small? Too big? I think she also liked the idea of trying the 9 3/4" one. Just looking to pick all your brains. Thanks everyone!
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Lacey Black
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I Love big cock =] so I would let her try as big as she wants but there is a good chance that once she has one bigger you might not be able to satisfy her anymore(if you even do now)
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I would advise against it 
I mean just remember today she's you nice innocent girlfriend but in a years time she could be appearing here:
http://www.brutaldildos.com/
And laughing about her past life with her new hoard of loose vagina'd friends.
Thats what happened to me 7 years ago, what is it they say?
Once you go scat you never go back
Well its true :bawling:
I mean just remember today she's you nice innocent girlfriend but in a years time she could be appearing here:http://www.brutaldildos.com/
And laughing about her past life with her new hoard of loose vagina'd friends.
Thats what happened to me 7 years ago, what is it they say?
Once you go scat you never go back
Well its true :bawling:
This is perhaps the worst advice I have EVER seen on these boards, and I have to seriously question if Lacey is even a female poster now. EVERY girl I have ever talked with, personally talked with, about this topic, says the same thing. In the end, everything else considered, size does NOT matter, and only someone who is looking to throw fear and doubt into someone's mind would write what you just wrote.
To the OP: Ignore Miss Styles advice.........it has no substance or style to it at all. EVERY woman I have spoken with has said that toys are fun, and sometime the bigger the better, but even a gigantic fake cock can never take the place of even an average sized real one. If your g/f wants to try out a Hedgehog-like tool, then I say by all means, let her see if she can take it, but have faith that that particular piece of plastic will never take the place of the hoss that comes with the guy she loves.
To Miss Styles: Maybe next time you give what you call advice, you should maybe not try and hurt someone's feelings who is brave enough to post a serious question to the respected members of these boards. What a thoughtless and tactless post, madam.
Lacey Black
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Wow first of all I cant believe you just brought up my gender but I will ignore that because you are clearly an ignorant person.. If you would like to re read my post you would notice that I never said that a toy was better then the real thing..
I simply stated 1 that yes I personally Love bigger cocks and 2 I would let her try something but just be careful because in my experience once I have had a little bigger and then went back to a smaller size it was not satisfying at all.. Its clear that you have issue with your own size and I really dont think that its my or anyone else's problem..
Everyone has their preferences.. No one feelings were trying to be hurt I was warning him to be careful so do yourself a favor and grow up.. If you dont like someones opinion oh well that doesnt give you the right to criticize them because you dont agree
Usually, the girls telling you 'size doesn't matter', are doing that so you don't feel bad about having a small dick!
whatever works...brainstorm
new to the internet, eh?
Again, you are making blanket judgments and statements about things I don't think you know anything about. And I do think you were ignorant and quite rude to question the OP's ability to satisfy her at all even now. How does saying that address or help with the main question?
It doesn't. It's childish and only throws unnecessary doubt into someone's mind, someone who has a valid question.
That was my main problem with your very deep and intellectual post. The reason I question your gender is simply because what you said and how you said it honestly had more of a "male" feel to it then any comment I have heard from any female. But then, to be fair, I specifically do not have dealings with sorority/cheerleader mental giants.
It has also been my experience that anyone who tells anyone else that they need to "grow up" are actually the ones who need to do the "growing up". It's a childish thing to say, and really, I would expect to hear it from a pom pom hurler in the 11th grade and not a "grown" adult.
As far as myself, I am quite content with my own size, and have never had any complaints or comments that would lead me to believe otherwise. I didn't feel the need to bring that up, but since you have, with no surprise on my part really because of your playground comments thus far I will defend myself and the appendages that come with me.
I strongly and firmly believe that your opinions are in the minority, an extreme minority, that gain too much attention because of the ability to feed off of someone's fears and insecurities. I took you to task because while it is true it is your "opinion", your comments and beliefs were put forth in a such a typical and cliche manner that I could not sit idly by and let your words sit there and infiltrate this thread like a bad smell.
Might want to grow a thicker skin. The internet/boards aren't all puppy dog tails and ice cream cones on a lazy summer afternoon. Sometimes, people just aren't going to like you.
Lacey Black
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Indeed.
I have to back Lacey up on this one...size does matter.
Galactic - having heard the line "size doesn't matter" yourself doesn't necessarily mean that it is true, no matter how much you'd like to believe it.
Do you suppose guys with large cocks get told that? Or even ask about it?
And don't pick on Lacey....kthx...
KK
Galactic - having heard the line "size doesn't matter" yourself doesn't necessarily mean that it is true, no matter how much you'd like to believe it.
Do you suppose guys with large cocks get told that? Or even ask about it?
And don't pick on Lacey....kthx...
KK
Thanks for the suggestion, duly noted........and forgotten. Who are you? I don't "pick" on people....I state my opinions very clearly. If it comes across too harsh........not my problem. I don't hate, I don't call vulgar names, but if I disagree, I disagree, and sometimes vehemently.
Asking me to stop "picking" on someone is ridiculous. I see it as a debate back and forth, albeit a heated one. I think (I may be wrong about this) that most of the people here can handle themselves in an adult fashion.
Should I PM you any time I think I might be "picking" on someone? :dunno:
You only became involved in this thread when Lacey suggested something that threatened your fragile belief that penile size doesn't matter. Your first response to her was to attack her personally by questioning her gender. Since all OCSM's have to be extensively verified, that's either particularly stupid, or intentionally hurtful.
Your personal approach to an abstract argument is perhaps best illustrated by your having unnecessarily inserted "who are you?" into your response to me...that would be called "baiting", and it's a childish approach to an argument - as Lacey tried to point out by saying "grow up".
The entire basis of your argument was your personal survey of female friends. You sound intelligent enough in your posting construction to understand why getting an accurate response to that would border on absurd.
And speaking with expertise about gender issues with which you can have no personal familiarity is no way to garner credibility.
Ask yourself - if at least *some* women believe that size matters - why would you have been told otherwise? As a woman who has had to deliver that very line, I can assure you that it is often much easier than telling the truth.
KK
:beer:Firstly, I would like to point out that Lacey is NOT an OCSM, and until that little message appears under her pic, she should not be treated as such. I'm not, and don't believe that I or anyone should be subject to differential treatment when we are all just "lowly" members. THAT is why I decided to question if she really is female. Well, mostly, but really, I'm just not a fan of her or her posting, as is my right.
Secondly, when I wrote to you, Who are you, I stand by that. You read it wrong. I seriously meant, who are you? I don't appreciate ANYONE, with the exception of a mod, coming on here and telling me what I can and cannot do. NO ONE has that right. That includes you, Kougar. It was not "baiting", as your layman's term from Psych 101 would seem to suggest. If I were to bait, there would be plenty more effective things that I could choose to do to accomplish that; I choose not to "bait". I prefer to voice my own opinion in a vehement manner, that is true. If it offends or pisses off some people.....oh well. I do nothing on here to warrant action, as our friend in question so thoughtfully and with a deep understanding of how to formulate rational, intellectual thoughts so aptly got across with her award winning response: :ban:
Furthermore, in no way did I try to or I think come across as an "expert", with "expertise" as you suggest I have done. I merely pointed out what I, personally, have gathered through numerous discussions with many different types and races of women. I never proclaimed that I was an expert, but rather what I have gathered; my own "evidence" in this argument, evidence that comes straight from the gender in question mouths. I never said that I understand this better than anyone.....in fact, I was mostly displeased with her wonderful, empathy filled comment about how the OP may not even satisfy her woman right now. If you would like to look at people's comments in this thread that are based purely in wild speculation and the "unknown", I would suggest you look no further than the original post that started this firestorm.
Finally, to answer your question, why would people be told otherwise? I would like to point out that at no time in this thread did I suggest that I personally have been told this. Not once did I suggest anything remotely indicative of my own personal experience having been told this. I haven't. I simply believe that for the most part, from everything that I have been told, have heard, have read, and believe, it is untrue and unimportant.
Thank you for pointing out that I can formulate arguments and sentence structure well. I am aware of this, but I really don't need your pat on the back.
Good day madam.
Firstly - it was an oversight on my part that Lacey hasn't achieved OCSM status yet. If she turns out to be an impersonator, you'll have my apologies on that point. Can I expect the same from you to her should she be verified?
Secondly - The use of the phrase 'who are you', is demonstrably baiting - since my face is my avatar, and I have a visibly public persona. Ah - but see - I've responded to the bait! LOL And no matter how condescending you may like to be with the 'psych 101' reference, my use of the word is more consistent with Webster and Roget than the DSM-IV.
Or do you believe that postcount=cred?
"I don't appreciate ANYONE, with the exception of a mod, coming on here and telling me what I can and cannot do. NO ONE has that right. That includes you, Kougar." - Bah! I didn't imply that you *couldn't* pick on Lacey - I suggested that you stop. It was ungentlemanly and tacky. But you do seem threatened by the suggestion - why would that be? Could it be indicated by the fact that you felt compelled to sound 'manly' by adressing me solely by my last name?
But perhaps the most telling point is this: "I would like to point out that at no time in this thread did I suggest that I personally have been told this. Not once did I suggest anything remotely indicative of my own personal experience having been told this." It would be more a persuasive assertion had you not just INSISTED that your opinion been gained from personal inquiry to your female friends - including in the previous paragraph! I never even remotely suggested that you'd been told point-blank that your penis was too small - only that you asked women friends about penile size, and they'd be hesitant to tell you the truth. Do you really question this?
Hmmm - and why did you feel the need for "numerous discussions with many different types and races of women" on this subject? Do you suppose your inquiry may have had some influence on the responses? Moreover, why would 'races' be relevant? Please explain that one.
As an intelligent person, do you really usually argue a point so vigorously when you only have hearsay knowledge of the topic? Lacey and myself both presumably have firsthand experience with the subject, yet you continue to try to validate your poorly-founded beliefs.
Your initial hostility toward Lacey for simply expressing her viewpoint, and then with me for asking you to stop picking on her, are indicative of deep-seated feelings of inadequacy.
And before you call me out on it - yes, that's Psych 102. It's a shame they didn't teach us how to spot a troll faster.
KK
PS: Advice: give up on the "sir" and "madam" business. This is a forum, not an Edwardian comedy. It doesn't lend you the gravitas you think it does.
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