Oh man, I don't think there is anything such as "too wet." I won't go into my wife until she is totally raining, and then I keep it focused on her orgasm. The best time to have an orgasm in a woman is when she is quivering, after she's already had hers! Overly wet matters little when her lining is contracting and expanding in totally completeness.obviously extremly tight and warm. wet but not so wet theres little friction. very snug like its sucking you in.