Hey freeones,
I really need some advice. I have been married now for a little while but with the same gal for close to eight years. Porn is awesome but recently, I find myself (as a less then popular thread i started will attest) looking at adds for escorts and searching the personals. I dont want to do it, I dont wanna get a disease. But here's the deal, I want to rekindle that spark that becomes so hard to maintain when you know someone better than they know themselves and vice versa. I want to keep the mistery, the intrigue and the fire alive - the sex remains great but more time passes between when we do it and its the relationship itself thats becoming mechanical. I took a first step to try to rectify this last night when she came in complaining about her day which has become commonplace and I offered that we cuddle like we used to instead of pouring over the negative. It worked and it was nice. Any suggestions though would be greatly appreciated. I know there is a wide cross section of people who post here which is why I am asking all of u for help. I love her and I dont want to lose her to my passions, I just want to make "us" passionate again...
I really need some advice. I have been married now for a little while but with the same gal for close to eight years. Porn is awesome but recently, I find myself (as a less then popular thread i started will attest) looking at adds for escorts and searching the personals. I dont want to do it, I dont wanna get a disease. But here's the deal, I want to rekindle that spark that becomes so hard to maintain when you know someone better than they know themselves and vice versa. I want to keep the mistery, the intrigue and the fire alive - the sex remains great but more time passes between when we do it and its the relationship itself thats becoming mechanical. I took a first step to try to rectify this last night when she came in complaining about her day which has become commonplace and I offered that we cuddle like we used to instead of pouring over the negative. It worked and it was nice. Any suggestions though would be greatly appreciated. I know there is a wide cross section of people who post here which is why I am asking all of u for help. I love her and I dont want to lose her to my passions, I just want to make "us" passionate again...
