I've realized something about all of these guys that have her vids locked down privately on PH (with a few exceptions of those who must have paid for them in the first place). If you look around on there, a lot of the guys that now have access to them, were at one time, BEGGING the other guys on PH to accept their friend request. Because you can clearly see their nickname on comments under another user's profile... pleading and begging. But... then they turn right back around and do the same thing that they were bitching about, to others. They either lock them down tighter, or they don't accept or respond to requests, thus doing the same thing to others that they whined about being done to them.
I've asked two people to be friends. One accepted, and the other is an example of what I am talking about. I don't plead or beg. I simply ask. If ignored, I learn something about that person and know to never ask that person again, regardless of how much it furls my eyebrows and makes them think "hypocritical dick".
Don't let these ass hats cause you to compromise your character by resorting to begging them, when some of them already begged someone else for the same thing.
It's not worth it.