I disagree entirely. According this approach, how should a good guy look like? like a fat, choked, shy loser? anything that is brighter than a dull commonplace person is not a sign of 'scumbag' or 'douche bag'? no way. this is the typical example of jealosy.
Take any beautiful babe from "find your favourite babe" section of this board, and show her photos to an ugly "highly intellectual" girl and I bet that she will tell you a lot things about "stupid grin" the babe has got, "pathos", "stupidity" and that the babe "has nothing but boobies" and that all that chicks are not faithful and bad for men, cuz they are using blah blah blah. Envy! :dunno:
All you "douchebag" haters sound the same way. Women want men who got sex appeal, and they choose them. Not boring dull and correct 'commonplace persons' with no striking traits. And no surprise with that. How can you assume that someone is using or abusing girls?! They do their own choice, cuz they want it. They ain't no children, they use their heads. How can one insist that he knows better what these women want and what is better for them? And even try to "protect" them from "scumbags". Just ridiculous!
If you prefer sexy girls, why can't girls prefer sexy men? Be fair to yourself.