Cheating

I think the clear cut answer is to KEEP IT QUIET....If you feel the need to confess your cheating, then make sure you're with a chick from one of the Nevada ranches....she won't feel used and work to screw your sitch up.
 

Will E Worm

Conspiracy...
If you love the person you're with you will not cheat on them.

That should be common sense.

If you don't love the person you're with, then find someone else.

So, there's no reason to ask this question.
 

Skyraider22

The One and Only Big Daddy
I look at it like this if you tell that person you have someone else what does that trell youabout the person you are cheating with,I mean she is helping you cheat just be honest with the person you are with I would break it off with her and get with the new girl .
 
i have been married for many years and consider myself to have been faithful all that time. however several years ago, i got french kissed by a girl (i didn't object or fight her off) that was completely unexpected. i was talking to a girl the other day about that (my wife never found out about that kiss) and she said i had cheated on my wife. i disagreed. last night i went on line to see how other people felt about that and found a relationship forum. virtually everyone there agreed that kissing (not a peck) is cheating. what does posters on free ones conclude?

btw, if you want to "cheat", go ahead. just don't expect your gf to be loyal to you either.
 

Will E Worm

Conspiracy...
i have been married for many years and consider myself to have been faithful all that time. however several years ago, i got french kissed by a girl (i didn't object or fight her off) that was completely unexpected. i was talking to a girl the other day about that (my wife never found out about that kiss) and she said i had cheated on my wife. i disagreed. last night i went on line to see how other people felt about that and found a relationship forum. virtually everyone there agreed that kissing (not a peck) is cheating. what does posters on free ones conclude?

btw, if you want to "cheat", go ahead. just don't expect your gf to be loyal to you either.

So, you went online and people agreed with you so it's not cheating? :rolleyes:

I think you should tell your wife. I'd want to know.
 
I'd never cheat on someone I was in a relaitonship with. I've had it done to me before, and I know how it feels to be the one getting cheated on. I'd never want to do the same to someone I cared about.
 
So, you went online and people agreed with you so it's not cheating? :rolleyes:

I think you should tell your wife. I'd want to know.

no, i went online and people disagreed with me. i never considered it to be cheating, but others did.

i think it would serve no purpose to tell my wife now. we have a wonderful happy marriage and there is absolutely nothing to be gained.
 

Will E Worm

Conspiracy...
i think it would serve no purpose to tell my wife now. we have a wonderful happy marriage and there is absolutely nothing to be gained.

What if she finds out? I'd want to know and if I found out another way, I would leave my wife. I will not tolerate a liar.
 
What if she finds out? I'd want to know and if I found out another way, I would leave my wife. I will not tolerate a liar.

it's been three years and the other girl moved away permanently. we have kids and every thing has been hunky dory. i never lied to my wife, just didn't tell her. didn't seem like a big deal to me, which is why i never really considered a kiss cheating. why cause unnecessary trouble?
 

Will E Worm

Conspiracy...
it's been three years and the other girl moved away permanently. we have kids and every thing has been hunky dory. i never lied to my wife, just didn't tell her. didn't seem like a big deal to me, which is why i never really considered a kiss cheating. why cause unnecessary trouble?

If you think it will cause trouble you feel guilt.

By not telling her you're holding something back, basically lying.

I'd tell her just to give her a chance to decide what she wants to do.
 
Ya know, I've been hit on by married men.

And I know they're married.

And they say they love their wives.




MEN. :rolleyes:
 
The sex your not supposed to be having is usually best sex you will ever have. In the heat of the moment, this could out weigh all other factors. After the dust settles, ask yourself "was it worth it?" I'm back with my wife now, all is forgiven, but honestly...a year of sex with an old flame girlfreind was the most amazing thing that has ever happened to me. Stange to say, but It fixed my marriage, and i had fun doing it...dam that girl can fuck!
 
I have cheated on a girlfriend after I told her that the relationship was over. She was living with me and I wanted her to move out and she wouldn't. She said she had nowhere to go and I tolerated her being there until she finally moved out a few months later. The other woman knew about my situation. Very odd situation.
 
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