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There's random threads about this already, but they're all really old and suck. Anyway...
I had a conversation earlier with a female friend of mine and we started talking about cheating during a relationship. Our conversation just really got me thinking about how wide of a variety of feelings there are regarding cheating and I wondered what other people's opinions are.
My friend thinks that cheating can be forgivable under certain circumstances. She thinks it's ok if you're *****, if you haven't seen your significant other in a while, the whole "area code" thing or if you "only" make out, perform oral sex or mutually masturbate eachother. At the same time, she used to constantly bitch to me about how her boyfriend would just hang out with other girls, in a completely non-sexual, non-emotional way. So, I was left a little confused.
Personally, I think it's absolutely inexcusable and completely unforgivable. I'm an old school guy who believes in commitment. I've been cheated on before and it was one of the worst feelings I've ever felt before. My girlfriend (at the time) was on Spring Break in Florida with her friends and ended up ******** with some random ass dude. I found out about it from my *** (long story) and confronted her about it. She tried to justify the fact that she had sex with another guy by telling me, "He wasn't in me for long." Like THAT makes it any better.
Anyway, I just wanted to know what you guys/girls thought about cheating. I'm interested in hearing what other people think.
I had a conversation earlier with a female friend of mine and we started talking about cheating during a relationship. Our conversation just really got me thinking about how wide of a variety of feelings there are regarding cheating and I wondered what other people's opinions are.
My friend thinks that cheating can be forgivable under certain circumstances. She thinks it's ok if you're *****, if you haven't seen your significant other in a while, the whole "area code" thing or if you "only" make out, perform oral sex or mutually masturbate eachother. At the same time, she used to constantly bitch to me about how her boyfriend would just hang out with other girls, in a completely non-sexual, non-emotional way. So, I was left a little confused.
Personally, I think it's absolutely inexcusable and completely unforgivable. I'm an old school guy who believes in commitment. I've been cheated on before and it was one of the worst feelings I've ever felt before. My girlfriend (at the time) was on Spring Break in Florida with her friends and ended up ******** with some random ass dude. I found out about it from my *** (long story) and confronted her about it. She tried to justify the fact that she had sex with another guy by telling me, "He wasn't in me for long." Like THAT makes it any better.
Anyway, I just wanted to know what you guys/girls thought about cheating. I'm interested in hearing what other people think.
