Mr. Daystar

In a bell tower, watching you through cross hairs.
I watch Family Guy, because Lois is a piece of ass!

The only time I wear panties...is when there on my head, because I didn't wanna take my face, from her place:D....and I needed to put them somewhere.

I always open the door for a lady...I pull their chairs out too...and if they look at me like I'm a chauvinist pig for doing it...I say "your welcome", in the most sarcastic tone I can muster.

I'm goin for a ride...to nice to keep Jezebelle in the garage.
 
Who Is Wearing The Panties?

I have been meaning to write this blog for several months now so here it goes…. better late than never. I have a serious issue with recent ads. There are too may to count that offend me, and frankly should offend every red blooded American man. Call me traditional (i know imagine that) but this bullshit in ads, and for that matter modern TV sitcoms and such…. of portraying men as weak, dorky slobs that are not worth a damn other than for catering to every whim of their over bearing, demanding and pushy wives is nauseating! I find nothing interesting, comical or empowering about this type of advertising, marketing and TV/hollywood push. The question I want to ask is what kind of woman would want to be with such a guy? When I see these ads I want to barf…I sure as hell don't want to buy what they are selling. Is it just me or what?

I happen to get a serious laugh out of "Family Guy." But even this show has Peter as the BIGGEST moron ever. There are so many other acts of intelligent humor going on in that show I can briefly over look it, but this is one of hundreds of examples. Why oh why is the weak male being glorified? This is a horrible thing for men in general and for the real women out there seeking sharp, strong, manly men.

I know this is going to piss some people off and that's ok. If we all had the same opinion, just think how boring….but this is one thing I am tired of letting pass. Feminists killed the strong man. The kind of men I find so incredibly enticing. Strong of mind, rugged but romantic, hunter and gatherer who looks drop dead gorgeous in a business suit. Damn all you women demanding equality to the point of killing gender benefits. Equality as far as pay to skill = good. Don't get me wrong…. I love being a strong independent educated woman, but gosh darn it I love when a man holds the door open for me, compliments me on my outfit or carries groceries to my car. Men don't do that any more because of you bra burners screaming "we are capable and don't need you." That's crap! I want and need those men back. Thank God I married one and from time to time meet one. When I do meet one I tell him! I tell him how much I appreciate his kindness and that I am thankful his "type" is not totally extinct. Flip flops, raggedy t-shits and 3 day old hair is not turn on. Skipping school to chill at the mall or beach is not sexy. In between jobs ( for 3 years) and living in your parents basement is not ok and treating women like your buddies just plain sucks. Now don't get me wrong guys, I do not put all the blame on you. In my mind, the majority of this behavior is placed on how parents are raising their kids now a days and the fact that MTV has made boys think being a slob is cool and can lead you to reality TV stardom. And girls? Holy hell what a ton of bitches we are raising. Jersey Shore kids and Real Housewives should NOT be your role models. No wonder guys are giving up and or have stopped caring. There are soooooooo many cruel bitchy evil and conniving women out there that only a weak man with zero confidence could stand to be bossed around by them.

Are we too far gone? I fear the pendulum has swung way out there and may be stuck never to return to some sort of balance. Again, Equality in the work force….I am all for, But why did the movement have to continue to a point of squashing what made men men and what made the joys of being a woman so awesome. There are fabulous benefits to men being men and women being women. We were made to compliment one another not act the freaking same! Ok I am done ranting but would love to know if any one else out there feels as I do or if I am alone with my thoughts on this one? :)

xxx
Brandi

Nice post but gotta add. Maybe your defination of Who Is Wearing The Panties should include Strong of mind, rugged but romantic, hunter and gatherer who looks drop dead gorgeous in a business suit. More people work in offices today than ever including women. Maybe the business suit has made men soft (if they ever were rugged in the first place). No one ever accuses a construction worker of being a pussy. Sitting around in a feminized office environment where most energy is used on excessive eating gives the man a soft body. Women have a defination of a rugged man that is more feminized than what a man would say.

Maybe you shouldn't judge especially on how people should raise their kids. Many people could easy judge you for what you do to earn money.

Brandi, you say you are an educated woman. Most people do some sort of education after high school. You should clarify. I mean did you get a MBA from an accredited college like Harvard or did go to the local community college. People usually put their credentials by their name if they want to tell people their education and want to be taken seriously.
 
Brandi, you say you are an educated woman. Most people do some sort of education after high school. You should clarify. I mean did you get a MBA from an accredited college like Harvard or did go to the local community college. People usually put their credentials by their name if they want to tell people their education and want to be taken seriously.


That is one of the most ignorant things I've ever read, and I've read some ignorant drivel. If Brandi has an MBA she can speak of her observations/beliefs, but if not, she can't? An MBA would qualify her to speak on the state of gender relations in the country as much as a BA in sociology would qualify her to speak on corporate finances.

Let me guess, you believe you are well-educated and therefore superior to all the ignorant masses with whom you deal?
 

BrandiLove

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Dexta,
Your comments are interesting...but clearly something I said ( all of which I made perfectly clear was an opinion ) Hit a button of yours. Maybe you need to dig deeper into why you got aggressive. I am college educated but I have no idea, as hedge said, what that has to do with anything. And as far as:
Maybe you shouldn't judge especially on how people should raise their kids. Many people could easy judge you for what you do to earn money.
WHAT? seriously one has nothing to do with the other. I am at a loss to your point. Anyhoo I do hope you can figure out what it is about your life and your decisions that had you lashing out. Other than that....have an awesome week :)

xxx
Brandi
 
Brandi,

Your points on the weak male are are well placed. I do have a theory that the prevalence of the weak male/slob/slacker that seems to be part of most sitcoms is not there for a role model. I believe that people want something to make them feel good about themselves and sadly seeing other people who are worse off does do just that. It may be subconscious but seeing so many flawed people at their worst makes one feel they are smarter than average.

This is the only way I can justify the popularity of "reality TV." If this is all true it highlights a deeper flaw in human character. It makes me wonder how much ambition we have lost to constantly need an artificial reminder of how much worse we could be.

Thank you for sharing your opinions, I hope you'll feel motivated to do it more.
 
Dexta,
Your comments are interesting...but clearly something I said ( all of which I made perfectly clear was an opinion ) Hit a button of yours. Maybe you need to dig deeper into why you got aggressive. I am college educated but I have no idea, as hedge said, what that has to do with anything. And as far as:
Maybe you shouldn't judge especially on how people should raise their kids. Many people could easy judge you for what you do to earn money.
WHAT? seriously one has nothing to do with the other. I am at a loss to your point. Anyhoo I do hope you can figure out what it is about your life and your decisions that had you lashing out. Other than that....have an awesome week :)

xxx
Brandi

Brandi, my point is you should not judge. I'm sure many people have judged you for being a pornstar, swinger, milf while being a parent at the same time. I would not expect you of all people to judge others after being subject to the same.

BTW. You mentioned you are college educated. Are you going to fess up on the details or are you ashamed to say?

One thing you are not ashamed of is showing off your big butt, tight abs and milf face getting jizzed on. Us guys love that. You are All-American milf with dyed blonde hair, black eyebrows, dark eyes, boob implants, cool sexual attitude.

http://www.nastypornostars.com/gals/brandi_love_pov_bj/brandi1.htm
 

BrandiLove

Official Checked Star Member
Brandi,

Your points on the weak male are are well placed. I do have a theory that the prevalence of the weak male/slob/slacker that seems to be part of most sitcoms is not there for a role model. I believe that people want something to make them feel good about themselves and sadly seeing other people who are worse off does do just that. It may be subconscious but seeing so many flawed people at their worst makes one feel they are smarter than average.

This is the only way I can justify the popularity of "reality TV." If this is all true it highlights a deeper flaw in human character. It makes me wonder how much ambition we have lost to constantly need an artificial reminder of how much worse we could be.

Thank you for sharing your opinions, I hope you'll feel motivated to do it more.

Damn baby you said it better than I did! TY for your words and for being you!

xxx
Brandi
 

BrandiLove

Official Checked Star Member
DEXTA - (improved response) LOL!

Dexta,
If I came across to harshly regarding how kids are being raised up forgive me. I am not here to pick a fight, just share opinions and have healthy debates. There is such a thing, I believe. Trust me Dexta I have been judged and will continue to be judged by others for the choices I have made in my life. I can not control the judgments that are thrown at me, however I can deal with them. I have an awesome life, and do not regret my choices. The choices were mine and my hubby's and they have been fabulous for us. I do not represent that I know what could make you happy in your life, and I am certain others can not tell me what will make me happy. I am very comfortable in my skin and doing what I do. I have never claimed to not have opinions, and I do like to share them from time to time. I appreciate when you guys share yours as well but Dexta, why not share yours without name calling? Do you not feel that you can have an intellectual and friendly debate with me? And if not why bother posting to me at all unless you just want to call me names. IN that case, ok go ahead, LOL! I can handle it. what do you mean fess up? Why would one have to fess up to where they went to college? Odd way of asking. I went to CMU and there is definitely no shame in that either. Anyhoo I am off to go have some fun and enjoy my day. I hope you do the same:)

xxx
Brandi
 
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BrandiLove

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Life is so full of lessons. It will never cease to amaze me. Even with how many things I have learned in my life thus far, and the number of crazy things I have been through, I am beginning to realize that I have only clipped the tip of the ice berg. Even just typing this, my first response to the prior sentence is a heavy sigh…… but then I close my eyes take a deep breath and smile. Because really, without lessons how do we grow? How do we improve and how do we find even greater success? There is no doubt that some of the lessons we are put through are not by choice. Sometimes they down right suck and are painful. Other times we even miss the fact that a lesson took place until much later. But indeed they occur everyday. I have, in my maturity, decided to actually look for the lessons in the experiences and opportunities that I am given. Growing pains are just that, pains…but once the hurt subsides (usually feelings) the outcome is beautiful. I know i am speaking pretty vague, and I do not mean to seem all philosophical and such but when I am in a situation where I am alone for periods of time my deep mind takes over. I stay pretty busy, chaotic busy … not necessarily productive busy. I am working diligently to become more productive busy. This is an endeavor of mine for many years but I refuse to stop trying. Laugh at me (those of you who know me) but I will conquer my lack of time management. With my energy level and desire to succeed, if I were organized I would be scary, lol! I need to set my fear of change and just go for it. really go for it.

I am looking forward to the coming months. Plans for AVN are already made and I will keep you posted as to the details as to what booths I will be signing at and such. Hard Rock Hotel is hosting the event this year. Get your rooms now! :)

http://www.hardrockhotel.com/


xxx
Brandi
 

BrandiLove

Official Checked Star Member
Wow this has been an insane week of pussy getting! LOL! Don't get me wrong I am soooooooo not complaining however I can tell you it has me craving cock like you just don't know! Playing with women is a totally different experience. I enjoy both men and women however I have to admit I really like balance. I suppose that is true of my nature across the board. It is the key, as I have learned ….. to happiness.

I have had the pleasure of meeting, and completely enjoying such women as Sensi Pearl, Malena Morgan, Lily Carter, Cindy, and Zoey Halloway. All of them unique and absolutely gorgeous in their own special ways. Stay tuned for DVD releases of mentioned scenes….they are going to be good ones. On another note my Naughty America scene with Bruce Venture should be coming out soon. All I can say about that one is OMG! I think I lost 5 lbs of sweat with him. Incredibly animalistic and intense. You're the shit Bruce!

I am ready to get back to my family and life as I know it. The daily routine (if there is such a thing in my world) is something I miss and crave about right now. The warmth and beauty of my home and the most loved people in the world in it, make it someplace I long to be. Soon, very soon. Thank you CA for another amazing sexual adventure and trust me…I shall return!

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Brandi

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