Best way to prep for anal?

[mattri]

My girl and I want to try anal. She's used her toys anally a little but no actual sex yet.

What's the best way to prep for anal sex?

 

[BlueBalls]

Take a run up.

 

[lurkingdirk]

Hot bleach enema. Makes everyone happy.

 

[GregCentauro]

prayer

 

[phanto_1985]

Poppers and a lot of lube.

 

[Sicario]

My girl and I want to try anal. She's used her toys anally a little but no actual sex yet.

What's the best way to prep for anal sex?

Just lube lots of KY on her/your fist and that should do the trick.

 

[Moonchild22]

Preppies are very anal.

 

[biomech]

Enema and lots of lube. Unless doing it dry and dirty works for you.

 

[PlumpRump]

Use a full length mirror, and practice your persuasive speech as to why she should do anal. Make sure to account for her potential responses, and don't forget to use "If you loved me, you'd do it," if she backs you into a corner.

 

[ApolloBalboa]

Tuck your head between your knees and Kiss your ass goodbye.

 

[Jane Burgess]

She needs to use her anal plug before sex to loosen it up. Also always have lots of lube around.

 

[DJCowboy]

Just skip the sex and go straight for the fisting

 

[Death-Proof-69]

ok...use lots of lube and go slow, warm her up to it all the way, start off vaginally so she's horny and therefore more into the idea of anal...when she's ready to switch, pull out and start playing with her anus, rubbing, gentle fingering, licking etc, use this time to get her lubed up as well...after a bit slip a finger in and work it in and out slowly, then, if you feel like, add a finger...if she has an anal suitable toy she likes (which it sounds like she does) slip that in and work with that a bit...when you two are ready for your dick to actually enter make sure you're all the way hard and lubed up yourself and pick a position she's comfortable with, missionary works great as does doggy...press the head of your dick gently against her anus and increase pressure slowly until you feel your dick slide in, it'll happen somewhat suddenly...go in til the head of your cock is inside and pause, communicate etc, if you get the 'go ahead' work it in another inch, pause, slide in and out a bit then go as far as she's comfortable with and fuck her softly until she's ready to take it harder...it's very important to make her feel comfortable and like she's in control of the situation so communicate...if she says stop, then stop, don't guilt her or make her feel like shit for not being able to take it if she can't...it may take several tries for her to take it like you want anyway...if it hurts her you're doing something wrong, so slow down, add more lube etc, there's no reason for her to feel any significant amount of pain...all the horror stories floating around about anal exist only because of people doing it wrong, as far as cleanliness, if she's taken a good crap earlier that day you shouldn't have any issues, a condom would still be a good idea if you feel squeamish about that plus, infections aren't fun...i dunno, i've never had any problems without one but it's still a good idea :2 cents:

have fun :thumbsup:

 

[Chica]

lots of liquor and lots of lube

 

[ManifestDestiny]

lots of mickey Ds and Chocolate shakes - nice and dirty.

 

[Chica]

ok...use lots of lube and go slow, warm her up to it all the way, start off vaginally so she's horny and therefore more into the idea of anal...when she's ready to switch, pull out and start playing with her anus, rubbing, gentle fingering, licking etc, use this time to get her lubed up as well...after a bit slip a finger in and work it in and out slowly, then, if you feel like, add a finger...if she has an anal suitable toy she likes (which it sounds like she does) slip that in and work with that a bit...when you two are ready for your dick to actually enter make sure you're all the way hard and lubed up yourself and pick a position she's comfortable with, missionary works great as does doggy...press the head of your dick gently against her anus and increase pressure slowly until you feel your dick slide in, it'll happen somewhat suddenly...go in til the head of your cock is inside and pause, communicate etc, if you get the 'go ahead' work it in another inch, pause, slide in and out a bit then go as far as she's comfortable with and fuck her softly until she's ready to take it harder...it's very important to make her feel comfortable and like she's in control of the situation so communicate...if she says stop, then stop, don't guilt her or make her feel like shit for not being able to take it if she can't...it may take several tries for her to take it like you want anyway...if it hurts her you're doing something wrong, so slow down, add more lube etc, there's no reason for her to feel any significant amount of pain...all the horror stories floating around about anal exist only because of people doing it wrong, as far as cleanliness, if she's taken a good crap earlier that day you shouldn't have any issues, a condom would still be a good idea if you feel squeamish about that plus, infections aren't fun...i dunno, i've never had any problems without one but it's still a good idea :2 cents:

have fun :thumbsup:

this is very good advice!

 

[alex505]

just lube up, take a deep breathe then Dive in!! that shit feels like a virgin pussy. SWEAR TO GOD!! Much Love!!

 

[julialee89]

I dont say this often; The pornstars (and Death-Proof-69) knows best! Good look with the anal!

 

[AshleyJane]

If your weird about poo then I suggest preparing for it by doing an enema. You can either do a shallow one like the fleet enemas or a deep one.. like the bag enemas. Heres the the issues with that: an enema isnt something you want to do right after you have eaten. When I do a scene I stop eating at about 9pm the night before and then eat nothing until the scenes over. That might be a little drastic for at home play. If you do a shallow enema, you do run the risk of things moving down the intestines due to the laxative effect of the water. Or you could be just fine. It all depends on what your comfortable with. But DONT EVER make a girl feel bad about getting poo on your dick during anal sex. You know the risks before you begin and your lucky shes letting you . As for the actual sex SLOW and Steady. Tell her to push out like shes trying to poo while your going in. It helps relax the muscles. Also a reallly big help is some sort of vibrator on her clit while your working yourself in. Anal sex is a really touchy subject for women so just be nice and considerate and im sure you will have a great time

 

[pete rose]

brace yourself?