Hey FreeOnes,
I'm going through a re-he-he-eally long barren spell. Haven't been laid in forever and it's starting to get ridiculous. I haven't jerked off for seven weeks now. Long story short, masturbation damages my self-esteem (don't bother telling me it's perfectly natural etc. that's besides the point). I'm holding out as long as possible until I can get laid, otherwise I'll just sit around fapping all day and won't give a **** about finding a girlfriend. I'm not a bad-looking guy, if do say so myself. I like to work out, I don't dress too shabbily, and while I am a little stoic I'm not socially inept. However, I am an incurable nerd who loves books, armchair philosophy, video-games, anime, you name it. I notice my fair share of girls checking me out, although they either seem to be young college chicks or middle-aged housewives. Must be my boyish good looks.
It just frustrates me because I see so many other guys my own age who have no trouble picking up women and there's nothing particularly special about them, whereas I'm left feeling like a dateless wonder.
I don't really get much chance to meet women. Bars and clubs aren't really my scene. I gave the online dating scene a shot: Tried being causal. Didn't work. Tried negging. Didn't work. Tried being MYSELF. You better believe that didn't work! Also, for shiggles, me and my buddy once created a fake POF account of some fairly hot chick. Within about five minutes we must have had over 50 messages in our inbox from horny dudes. It just goes to show how competitive those dating sites are and how most of the 7-10s can afford to be choosy.
I know some guys suggest going out and banging some floozy, even if you don't find them attractive. Sorry, but I'm not about to shag someone for shagging's sake, and I'm not paying for sex either. I refuse to lower myself to that (no offence to anyone who does), and it wouldn't help me any in the long run.
I've heard dance classes are a good way to meet women? Especially if you prefer a cougar to a puma. Other than that, I need some suggestions to get out of this slump.
I'm going through a re-he-he-eally long barren spell. Haven't been laid in forever and it's starting to get ridiculous. I haven't jerked off for seven weeks now. Long story short, masturbation damages my self-esteem (don't bother telling me it's perfectly natural etc. that's besides the point). I'm holding out as long as possible until I can get laid, otherwise I'll just sit around fapping all day and won't give a **** about finding a girlfriend. I'm not a bad-looking guy, if do say so myself. I like to work out, I don't dress too shabbily, and while I am a little stoic I'm not socially inept. However, I am an incurable nerd who loves books, armchair philosophy, video-games, anime, you name it. I notice my fair share of girls checking me out, although they either seem to be young college chicks or middle-aged housewives. Must be my boyish good looks.
It just frustrates me because I see so many other guys my own age who have no trouble picking up women and there's nothing particularly special about them, whereas I'm left feeling like a dateless wonder.I don't really get much chance to meet women. Bars and clubs aren't really my scene. I gave the online dating scene a shot: Tried being causal. Didn't work. Tried negging. Didn't work. Tried being MYSELF. You better believe that didn't work! Also, for shiggles, me and my buddy once created a fake POF account of some fairly hot chick. Within about five minutes we must have had over 50 messages in our inbox from horny dudes. It just goes to show how competitive those dating sites are and how most of the 7-10s can afford to be choosy.
I know some guys suggest going out and banging some floozy, even if you don't find them attractive. Sorry, but I'm not about to shag someone for shagging's sake, and I'm not paying for sex either. I refuse to lower myself to that (no offence to anyone who does), and it wouldn't help me any in the long run.
I've heard dance classes are a good way to meet women? Especially if you prefer a cougar to a puma. Other than that, I need some suggestions to get out of this slump.
