If you're just concerned with raising a family and being an employee = I agree with Seattle.
However, if you want to know what city is best to LIVE LIFE (food, music, entertainment, diverse culture, great history, friendly people, climate, slower pace of life pace of life), New Orleans can't be beat.
New Orleans has problems with crime, school system sucks in Louisiana, highest insurance rates in the nation, probably one of the worst states for tech jobs, but you will get the most out of life 8 days a week in all the surrounding neighborhoods of New Orleans CBD
Those cities listed are way too fucking cold to be hospitable (I've lived in Chicago / Philly....fuck that shit!)