As far as dating, what are your "nopes?"

[Jagger69]

Anyone...I'm married.

Me too. However, if I were single, I would refuse to date anyone with standards so low that they were willing to date someone like me.

 

[Mr. Daystar]

Me too. However, if I were single, I would refuse to date anyone with standards so low that they were willing to date someone like me.

"You must spread some reputation around, before giving it to Jagger69 again".

Exactly! Same thing with clubs and organizations. If you'll let me in...your standards are way to low. Years ago, before I was married, I had a friend that was in an MC. He told me, I should come hang out, maybe they'll want me to prospect for the club. I told him the same thing, if. If your standards are that low...why the hell would I want to fly your colors?

 

[ArsErotika]

This. Silly superficial things like types of music people listen to, what kind of food they eat, what clothes they wear, what jewelry they wear, how tall they are, etc. can be set aside. I mean, if stuff like that is a deal breaker, how shallow is that?

Everyone, men and women, carries at least one or two of those traits to an extent. Are we not all manipulative if and when we absolutely need to be? Have you ever lied to your parents because you were too afraid to tell the truth? Is there something about your appearance that you're insecure about, like your hair, weight, or skin? Are we not all dependent on something, be it a car, a phone, money, or a TV? Do we not all believe that our own morals are correct and disagree with others?

These things are fine because they're natural. It's a deal breaker when it's excessive.

Precisely. We're all capable of these things, and much much worse. But the list I gave represents the sort of defining traits which dominate a person's character, and by extension, threaten to dominate the relationship. I've had the dubious pleasure of dating at least 2 women who embodied every trait I mention. In extreme.

Truly an excruciating way to learn some vital lessons.

 

[Harley Spencer]

I'm guessing that the scouser part is a joke. Regarding the others, well, yeah. I don't think that really needs to be spelled out though. Anything truly reprehensible is obviously going to still be a hangup, but that's not so much an "I don't want to date you" thing so much as it is an "I don't want to associate with you" thing. It's like serial killers and the like probably off the list for everyone too (well, except for the truly dysfunctional).

Maybe it's just my mild case of the crazies kicking in and making me literal to the point of pedantry, but to me the topic is more or less asking what trait is going to stop you from wanting specifically to date someone, and all of the stuff that's simply unacceptable is already more or less considered to be in the pot already, so no need to ante it up. So bigots and serial killers probably don't need to be mentioned, but someone who cracks their knuckles once or twice a day, well yeah, that probably deserves to be listed.

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I imagine ArsErotika was suggesting that these traits are an issue when they are present in extremes. Otherwise, yeah, you're totally right Harley, they're omnipresent so good luck to anyone who's looking to find someone and can't accept them to any degree.

But that's another thing I think, magnitude is always going to factor. Anything taken to extremes is going to cause an issue. I'd think when you're talking about deal breakers generally I'd think the question refers to small hangups that you just can overlook in any degree. So, in the case of dishonesty finding it unacceptable for someone to tell the occasional "white lie" would qualify, but expecting people to not be pathological is probably, just, you know... good sense.

But yeah, maybe this is just how I personally interpret the question. :dunno:

Cracking knuckles once or twice a day? Oh dear. I crack all sorts of my body parts multiple times a day. Back, neck, fingers, toes. If I can crack it, I'm gonna crack it. It feels so goooood.

Anyway I was mostly making that previous post because of the other person who quoted him saying that he has yet to find a single woman who doesn't carry those traits. So my point was mainly to him, that it's completely normal to have any of those traits and to point out that it's mainly only a problem when it's excessive and that it's not just women who carry those traits, it's people in general, male or female.

I never knew what a Bronie was either & I also never knew that men liked My Little Pony :dunno:

I guess this is porn for them

That is probably the most ridiculous thing I've ever seen.

Basically someone who is restrictive. It's a turnoff and quite frankly it's intimidating imo.

Ah ok. Yeah I'm the same way, sex can't be boring, nor can anything else outside of sex. If someone turns their nose up at any itsy bitsy thing that's even remotely naughty, forbidden, dangerous, scandalous, or is otherwise close-minded, that's a no-no. I don't want to be in relationship with anyone who's like that, let alone be friends with them.

But... intimidating? Ha! Not intimidating to me in the least. Pathetic and stuck up is more like it.

 

[Ari Dee]

No bigots.

I can't date someone that hates gay people or POC.

I don't see myself with any Republicans either, but who knows

 

[HappyHapyJoyJoy]

Does this mean i can't peg roald while we watch My Little Pony?

Probably have to change the channel to Sponge Bob first.

why would you taste your doggs piss??

Maybe he was in dire need of electrolytes?

Cracking knuckles once or twice a day? Oh dear. I crack all sorts of my body parts multiple times a day. Back, neck, fingers, toes. If I can crack it, I'm gonna crack it. It feels so goooood.

I was dumped once for cracking my knuckles. I did it once, and that was the end. Some people just freak at that for some reason. :dunno:

Anyway I was mostly making that previous post because of the other person who quoted him saying that he has yet to find a single woman who doesn't carry those traits. So my point was mainly to him, that it's completely normal to have any of those traits and to point out that it's mainly only a problem when it's excessive and that it's not just women who carry those traits, it's people in general, male or female.

Yup, it's everyone. It's only ever a question of degrees.

 

[Ari Dee]

My lover totally cracks my toes & back for me.

& rubs my feet all the time.
/spoiled

 

[Deepcover]

Ah ok. Yeah I'm the same way, sex can't be boring, nor can anything else outside of sex. If someone turns their nose up at any itsy bitsy thing that's even remotely naughty, forbidden, dangerous, scandalous, or is otherwise close-minded, that's a no-no. I don't want to be in relationship with anyone who's like that, let alone be friends with them.

Yup you got it

But... intimidating? Ha! Not intimidating to me in the least. Pathetic and stuck up is more like it.

Lol...idk i'll probably roll my eyes or something but deep down it just freaks me out. You got more balls then me.

 

[Harley Spencer]

I was dumped once for cracking my knuckles. I did it once, and that was the end. Some people just freak at that for some reason. :dunno:

Yeah I've come across a few people who cringe when they hear someone cracking. I'm just like...Grow the fuck up, pansy. Same with putting my feet up on the coffee table or even having my feet under me curled up on the couch. Some people go nuts when they see that. Granted, I'm not just going to randomly prop up my feet on some stranger's furniture or anyone who doesn't like that (I'm happy to be respectful of other peoples' belongings), but if I'm at my own damn house, at a hotel, vacationing, or generally in my own area, if I wanna stick my feet up, get over it Miss Priss.

Clearly I don't take kindly to people being germaphobes or overall stuck up about stupid little things.

 

[Harley Spencer]

My lover totally cracks my toes & back for me.

& rubs my feet all the time.
/spoiled

Hahaha! Mine too. Back rubs, foot rubs, back cracking. I love it.

Yup you got it



Lol...idk i'll probably roll my eyes or something but deep down it just freaks me out. You got more balls then me.

I roll my eyes too. A lot. I can't stand people going all judgy-judgy and shit. If someone acts like that, I'll let it slide for the first time and finish up our business, but after that, it's Hit the Road Jack!

 

[HappyHapyJoyJoy]

Yeah I've come across a few people who cringe when they hear someone cracking. I'm just like...Grow the fuck up, pansy. Same with putting my feet up on the coffee table or even having my feet under me curled up on the couch. Some people go nuts when they see that.

I could sort of see some people taking issue with the table if they eat off of it. Otherwise I don't get that. Feet curled under on the couch? Unless you're wearing muddy boots... who gives a fuck? That I just don't understand at all. I didn't even realize that would be a problem for anyone.

 

[Harley Spencer]

I could sort of see some people taking issue with the table if they eat off of it. Otherwise I don't get that. Feet curled under on the couch? Unless you're wearing muddy boots... who gives a fuck? That I just don't understand at all. I didn't even realize that would be a problem for anyone.

Yep. My one uncle is like that. If he saw me with my feet up on the couch he'd yell at me. It happened once when I was a kid and ever since, I've had a serious disliking for him. That whole family (him, my aunt and cousin) is the most germaphobic family you'd ever meet. Ugh.

 

[HappyHapyJoyJoy]

Yep. My one uncle is like that. If he saw me with my feet up on the couch he'd yell at me. It happened once when I was a kid and ever since, I've had a serious disliking for him. That whole family (him, my aunt and cousin) is the most germaphobic family you'd ever meet. Ugh.

:wtf: It's a couch. Asses are fine... but they draw the line at feet? Strange.

 

[Jagger69]

"You must spread some reputation around, before giving it to Jagger69 again".

Exactly! Same thing with clubs and organizations. If you'll let me in...your standards are way to low. Years ago, before I was married, I had a friend that was in an MC. He told me, I should come hang out, maybe they'll want me to prospect for the club. I told him the same thing, if. If your standards are that low...why the hell would I want to fly your colors?

:1orglaugh My comment is actually a ripoff of a Groucho Marx quote that goes thusly...."I sent the club a wire stating, "PLEASE ACCEPT MY RESIGNATION. I DON'T WANT TO BELONG TO ANY CLUB THAT WILL ACCEPT PEOPLE LIKE ME AS A MEMBER".

Same sentiment....different situation. Groucho was awesome. :thumbsup:

 

[xfire]

I was dumped once for cracking my knuckles. I did it once, and that was the end. Some people just freak at that for some reason. :dunno:

When I was sixteen I broke my ankle. Ever since then it pops all the damn time. Good thing my ol' lady doesn't mind. lol

 

[HappyHapyJoyJoy]

When I was sixteen I broke my ankle. Ever since then it pops all the damn time. Good thing my ol' lady doesn't mind. lol

Broke mine a few years back. No cracking, not even when it broke. There was, however, a nice loud crunching noise that had a buddy of mine nearly blow chunks...

 

[Mr. Daystar]

:1orglaugh My comment is actually a ripoff of a Groucho Marx quote that goes thusly...."I sent the club a wire stating, "PLEASE ACCEPT MY RESIGNATION. I DON'T WANT TO BELONG TO ANY CLUB THAT WILL ACCEPT PEOPLE LIKE ME AS A MEMBER".

Same sentiment....different situation. Groucho was awesome. :thumbsup:

Yes he was.

 

[Harley Spencer]

When I was sixteen I broke my ankle. Ever since then it pops all the damn time. Good thing my ol' lady doesn't mind. lol

Ooof. That sounds like no fun. I've never broken anything (I don't think anyway), the closest I've come is what I think was stoving my finger when I was.... also 16 I believe. Maybe 15. Same difference. This kid in my gym class kicked my thumb during soccer. I was the goalie (I like being goalie, I hate sports, but being goalie I can handle) and when the ball was in the goal post, I bent to pick it up to throw it back out and this dumbass decided to kick the ball while my hands were around the ball, stoving the fuck out of my thumb. Ever since then, I have the hardest time cracking that thumb... maybe once or twice a year I can crack it, but other than that it's just really uncomfortable to try to crack.

 

[vodkazvictim]

why would you taste your doggs piss??

To get the taste of your kiss out of his mouth?

No bigots.

I can't date someone that hates gay people or POC.

I don't see myself with any Republicans either, but who knows

I'm really fighting temptation here...

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So I don't like nutters. So what? You wanna hang around with a nutter all the time? They're nuts!
/mantra

- furries
- virgins
- cries after sex
- swedish
- doesn't like tentacles

It's not crying, it's eyes watering.
Ya know how ya family always give you soap for Christmas...?

No clue either.

Adding to my no list: people using the word bronies

I aint saying it

Plasma Twat

I miss him. I think I owe him a blowjob. Where is he?

Everyone, men and women, carries at least one or two of those traits to an extent. Are we not all manipulative if and when we absolutely need to be? Have you ever lied to your parents because you were too afraid to tell the truth? Is there something about your appearance that you're insecure about, like your hair, weight, or skin? Are we not all dependent on something, be it a car, a phone, money, or a TV? Do we not all believe that our own morals are correct and disagree with others?

These things are fine because they're natural. It's a deal breaker when it's excessive.

I wasn't being serious. You should almost never take me seriously.
Now why don't you post a pic of your smile for me|

 

[HappyHapyJoyJoy]

Ooof. That sounds like no fun. I've never broken anything (I don't think anyway), the closest I've come is what I think was stoving my finger when I was.... also 16 I believe..

Huh. "Stoving" as an injury? I don't know that term. Don't think it's used around here. What kind of injury is that?