Seems like your just being contrarian. The article I posted above from webmd discusses masturbation and says that men do it more often. And I'm sure if we took a poll, most people would agree that men masturbate more than women.
are you satisfied sexually with you partner?
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Seems like your just being contrarian. The article I posted above from webmd discusses masturbation and says that men do it more often. And I'm sure if we took a poll, most people would agree that men masturbate more than women.
Again, women wont admit it, so the poll is meaningless.
Women lie all the time dude, nothing new.
But if you must ask, I don't know for sure, I'm just going by experience.
Am I sexually satified with my partner? Well... my partner is my hand, so I get as much as I want. :uohs:
Everybody lies.
squallumz
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i was worried about sex after getting married too. there's a fucking shit load of jokes and references to sex sucking after marriage all over the tv and radio but i found out it isnt true.
i forgot which member it was here that told me it actually gets better with time, and its stood true so far. granted everyone is different, things can happen in a relationship with can and will affect the amount and quality of sex, but if you are a decent couple, i would assume it should stand true for you as well.
the only thing you will miss is other people, but the sex you get from your spouse is going to get naughtier and naughtier as time passes. you will forget about it as long as you remember to come back to her when you really need to pop. ive been experiencing new things all the time, better techniques, dress up, the works. i have to thank porn being discovered as a couple big time too. sharing it is an incredible thing!
be sure you can handle being with one person too. if you are lucky and real comfortable with each other, You Might even get into sharing another person or couple but obviously it should happen way into the marriage if ever completely depending on how are two are. You Might be surprised on what happens when people get comfortable with their sexuality and become mature together.
i forgot which member it was here that told me it actually gets better with time, and its stood true so far. granted everyone is different, things can happen in a relationship with can and will affect the amount and quality of sex, but if you are a decent couple, i would assume it should stand true for you as well.
the only thing you will miss is other people, but the sex you get from your spouse is going to get naughtier and naughtier as time passes. you will forget about it as long as you remember to come back to her when you really need to pop. ive been experiencing new things all the time, better techniques, dress up, the works. i have to thank porn being discovered as a couple big time too. sharing it is an incredible thing!
be sure you can handle being with one person too. if you are lucky and real comfortable with each other, You Might even get into sharing another person or couple but obviously it should happen way into the marriage if ever completely depending on how are two are. You Might be surprised on what happens when people get comfortable with their sexuality and become mature together.
More info to prove my point:
http://www.webmd.com/sex/sex-drive-frequently-asked-questions
http://www.webmd.com/sex/sex-drive-frequently-asked-questions
squallumz
knows petras secret: she farted.
wait, do people actually think women have a bigger sex drive then men?!
thats fucking nonsense! its called testosterone. hormones. thats what it all is. if women were as sexual as men, do you have any idea what the population would be like? all people would be doing is fucking. all fucking day long.
thats fucking nonsense! its called testosterone. hormones. thats what it all is. if women were as sexual as men, do you have any idea what the population would be like? all people would be doing is fucking. all fucking day long.
Fair point, especially the statement about prostitution.
If women had the same sex drive as men - there would be a demand for male prostitution.
I think tubuler's made some good points on this thread.
I think it is our fate, as men, to never be fully satisfied sexually. We will never get all the sex we want. Never.
The only exeptions are really really rich guys. They can be lame as shit and ugly as fuck but they will always get as much pussy as they want. Because women love money more than anything else in this world. But that's a whole other topic.
The only exeptions are really really rich guys. They can be lame as shit and ugly as fuck but they will always get as much pussy as they want. Because women love money more than anything else in this world. But that's a whole other topic.
+1 for sex getting better as time goes on. Ive been with my girl for 5 years (not married). But the sex does get better. 2 years in to our relationship I got worried about how things might end up because I wasn't happy with our sex life. Someone told me to just sit down with her and talk about fantasies, favorite positions, favorite places to have sex, anal, oral, what we like most about each other etc... We talked about everything, took it serious, and now..things get a little crazy lol. If you want your wife to satisfy your needs then just have a sit down and be honest and open minded. If she really cares about you (I'm sure she does) she will understand that your sexual needs are higher than hers and will put out.
I'm a woman so I'll give my two cents.
As for the debate about who has the higher sex drive: without a doubt, a man. Of course there are always exceptions to this rule, I know alot of women who have insanely high sex drives. But overall, its men who want it more and enjoy it more. Its called testosterone. You guys have a steady stream of it and we don't. We're stuck with a mess of up and down estrogen that gets fucked with if we're on the BC pill. But I'll guarantee one thing and guys listen up: If you rock in bed...and give her the best sex she's ever had....then she'll want it more and her sex drive will skyrocket. I think most women tend to not enjoy sex or want it because they're bored, or their partner doesn't know a thing about her hotspots. Every woman is different so give her a custom made sex session just for her and she'll want it all the time.
And as for sex declining during marriage....doesn't always happen. I think if it does, then either see above, or understand that eventually children come into play, responsibilities are added, thus stress is added...you get older, women hit pre and post menopause...all of those might attribute to the frequency of sex because they all affect our libido. Its been proven that if men picked up more chores, bathed the kids, paid the bills etc...just took some of the workload off their spouses, then they'd feel more appreciated and be more inclined to make love. Help her out and she'll help you out too hehe.
But yeah...I'm pretty satisfied with my partner. We've been together three years, are married now...sex doesn't happen as often as I'd like, maybe once or twice a week, but our schedules conflict with each other so we don't get the time each day to even sit down for dinner together, let alone make love. But when the opportunity arises, he definitely curls my toes.
As for the debate about who has the higher sex drive: without a doubt, a man. Of course there are always exceptions to this rule, I know alot of women who have insanely high sex drives. But overall, its men who want it more and enjoy it more. Its called testosterone. You guys have a steady stream of it and we don't. We're stuck with a mess of up and down estrogen that gets fucked with if we're on the BC pill. But I'll guarantee one thing and guys listen up: If you rock in bed...and give her the best sex she's ever had....then she'll want it more and her sex drive will skyrocket. I think most women tend to not enjoy sex or want it because they're bored, or their partner doesn't know a thing about her hotspots. Every woman is different so give her a custom made sex session just for her and she'll want it all the time.
And as for sex declining during marriage....doesn't always happen. I think if it does, then either see above, or understand that eventually children come into play, responsibilities are added, thus stress is added...you get older, women hit pre and post menopause...all of those might attribute to the frequency of sex because they all affect our libido. Its been proven that if men picked up more chores, bathed the kids, paid the bills etc...just took some of the workload off their spouses, then they'd feel more appreciated and be more inclined to make love. Help her out and she'll help you out too hehe.
But yeah...I'm pretty satisfied with my partner. We've been together three years, are married now...sex doesn't happen as often as I'd like, maybe once or twice a week, but our schedules conflict with each other so we don't get the time each day to even sit down for dinner together, let alone make love. But when the opportunity arises, he definitely curls my toes.
I'm a woman so I'll give my two cents.
As for the debate about who has the higher sex drive: without a doubt, a man. Of course there are always exceptions to this rule, I know alot of women who have insanely high sex drives. But overall, its men who want it more and enjoy it more. Its called testosterone. You guys have a steady stream of it and we don't. We're stuck with a mess of up and down estrogen that gets fucked with if we're on the BC pill. But I'll guarantee one thing and guys listen up: If you rock in bed...and give her the best sex she's ever had....then she'll want it more and her sex drive will skyrocket. I think most women tend to not enjoy sex or want it because they're bored, or their partner doesn't know a thing about her hotspots. Every woman is different so give her a custom made sex session just for her and she'll want it all the time.
And as for sex declining during marriage....doesn't always happen. I think if it does, then either see above, or understand that eventually children come into play, responsibilities are added, thus stress is added...you get older, women hit pre and post menopause...all of those might attribute to the frequency of sex because they all affect our libido. Its been proven that if men picked up more chores, bathed the kids, paid the bills etc...just took some of the workload off their spouses, then they'd feel more appreciated and be more inclined to make love. Help her out and she'll help you out too hehe.
But yeah...I'm pretty satisfied with my partner. We've been together three years, are married now...sex doesn't happen as often as I'd like, maybe once or twice a week, but our schedules conflict with each other so we don't get the time each day to even sit down for dinner together, let alone make love. But when the opportunity arises, he definitely curls my toes.
Good post. I would add that the biggest part your partner wanting it is you maintaining your sexual attractiveness to them. That's the biggest reason sex becomes pedestrian for married or monogamous couples IMO.
agreed. Men hate it when their wives let themselves go. I mean, its one thing to have gained a bit of weight through the years, because lets face it, as we get older our metabolism slows down and having children doesn't help. But alot of wives just blow up, never dress up or put on makeup...its nice to at least make SOME effort. And same goes for guys...romance tends to die after being married awhile and alot of guys don't feel they need to "keep up" that part of the relationship because they've already got the girl so to speak. But its amazing how sexy it makes a woman feel to get the opportunity to go out for a nite on the town, get away from the kids and just get to "date" again. I think if both spouses equally put in more effort as time goes on to maintain the other spouses desires and wishes, then overall the marriage would be healthier and be more sexually fullfilling.
Bottom line is, marriage doesn't have to be the always talked about borefest where neither partner is satisfied both in the bedroom and out. Marriage always has phases, ups and downs...you just have to both commit to ironing out the wrinkles, and making the effort when things get stagnant. In most cases, men who bitch about never getting laid in their marriage likely have a pile of sex just waiting for him if he talks to his wife about what would make HER happy in the relationship too. Oftentimes, the women don't care about sex, but theres other aspects of the relationship she would like more work on...and would gladly give sex in return for more effort on his part. Two way street here, and both need to be on the same highway or it just doesn't work!
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