Are you Gay if you?...

Spleen

Banned?
:dito: :glugglug:

Did anybody actually watch the video? :o

The first one really is a rare and sympathetic view to the perils of being a straight guy in this day and age. The man makes great points in support of straight male and the grief they get. Great link, and appropro for the Freeones folks et al.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kS2my1FN_A4

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Jon S.

Banned
You don't have to pretend to like Family Guy because some chic does. That's gay.
I never said I was pretending to like it....I do like Family Guy! Stewie just wouldn't be my 1st choice of avatars is all!

Besides, Nikki Nova isn't a "chic(k)"! She's a woman/lady thank you very much!!! Ha ha ha!

Like I said before, if adoring/liking Nikki Nova makes me gay.....Then I'm gay as Hell & I don't wanna be straight! Ha ha ha!
 
I did enjoy that Savage video, but I do think, and maybe it's just because I'm a repressed homophobe, there's a slight bit of if-you-aren't-being-just-a-little-bicurious-and-sexually-adventures-you're-probably-very-something-negative...

It's not that I disagree as such, it sucks having to live by some sucky norms, whether they have to do with sex or headwear, or both, I just don't think being essentially old school boring straight, have much to do with expectations or society in general, it's just the way many, many guys are wired.

Anyway, unless you find guys attractive and don't care about the ladies at all, I kinda doubt you're gay, no matter what you digest or put up your ass.
 
Gay would be liking another man's semen. Touching, sucking, fucking another man. Clear and simple.

It is interesting to see posts (not here) that ask for a "straight" man who wants their dick sucked by another man....IMO if a guy is getting his dick sucked by another man then he is either bi or gay - not straight.
 
Considering the previous post, I just realized that dick may be the one thing that makes my previous statement bullshit.
Anyway, unless you find guys attractive and don't care about the ladies at all, I kinda doubt you're gay, no matter what you digest or put up your ass.
Yeah...

That makes no sense.
 
Gay would be liking another man's semen. Touching, sucking, fucking another man. Clear and simple.

It is interesting to see posts (not here) that ask for a "straight" man who wants their dick sucked by another man....IMO if a guy is getting his dick sucked by another man then he is either bi or gay - not straight.

Again, I don't think most here take it that the OP was asking if it was 'gay' in terms of the literal definition of homosexual or gay. Assuming the OP is as educated on it as the overwhelming majority of people (on this board or otherwise) he probably knows the difference between what's technically gay or straight.

People refer to things some men do loosely as 'gay' that are feminine in nature, not something your typical straight guy would do sexually or jokingly to an otherwise emasculated idea.

Practically the OP is asking would the average man think something is wrong with 'straight' men doing this, not whether it's technically homosexual. To that question, I think most men (and women) would say yes, it's 'gay' (not gay).
 
Again, I don't think most here take it that the OP was asking if it was 'gay' in terms of the literal definition of homosexual or gay. Assuming the OP is as educated on it as the overwhelming majority of people (on this board or otherwise) he probably knows the difference between what's technically gay or straight.

People refer to things some men do loosely as 'gay' that are feminine in nature, not something your typical straight guy would do sexually or jokingly to an otherwise emasculated idea.

Practically the OP is asking would the average man think something is wrong with 'straight' men doing this, not whether it's technically homosexual. To that question, I think most men (and women) would say yes, it's 'gay' (not gay).

:facepalm:^^ All these gay threads are so 'gay' that I can't keep them straight.:facepalm:

I thought I was responding to JAG in this thread.

(How 'gay' is it to not be able to keep the gay threads straight??:facepalm::facepalm:)
 

CamilleCrimson

Official Checked Star Member
Thanks for sharing! I love it when men think critically about their own sexuality. Dan is just the man to show 'em how!

I remember a thread here where some thought tasting your own cum was "gay". What struck me about this was how paranoid we are as men about our sexuality. The fact that even too much attention to our OWN dicks, or what came out of them, might be misperceived as gay seemed absurd and sad.

Which is why this link is so priceless. Much praise to advice columnist Dan Savage for shedding some much needed perspective on the subject of Straight Male Sexuality.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kS2my1FN_A4

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PmrukKJBHoQ
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ajR9PLvN73k
 
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