Hi Prof,
I don't find you question intrusive at all. Basically, I have no problem with the idea of fucking men on camera. I've just always said that I will only do it if/when I am ready. So basically, if you ever see me in a hardcore set you will know that I chose to do it because I felt ready and, more importantly, that I am doing it because I REALLY want to be.
Maybe I should flip that ...
If I was a lovely lass like yourself, there are just so many variables, I don't know if I'd ever chance it. In your case, you've already established yourself as one of the top natural, nude models in the world (although you didn't need the
Voluptuous title to tell me that, although it's still there on your resume). So if I were in your shoes, even if I wanted to, I don't know if I'd ever.
Yes, this is going to be a long, ProfV-type babble. I'm just giving a warning in case anyone wants to skip it, including Angela ...
This is the delima and view I have, which is completely "outside" your world. I'm always just looking for that "peer inside" to understand it better. Especially since there are enough of us men out there -- and I probably don't need to refer to past postings, but they have been in this thread (and others) -- that have this "guilty pleasure" in seeing hardcore, yet we wonder if the woman working and doing what she wants, and not what someone else wanted them to do.
As you might have noticed from my past postings, I'm all for erotica, as is my wife. We believe in the pure, animal nature of man and woman, and don't deny ourselves. We only practice the rule that we don't want to see people doing what they do want to do. We don't like to add the unrelated concepts of men taking women as they don't want to be taken and, gasp, the direct "violation" type which is not sex at all, and sex is just the excuse. My wife is a teacher and she tires of the concept of "abstinence" when the message should be "responsibility" and "consent."
It seems like we grow up, at least here in the US, with this warped sense of "wrong," when it's not absolutes, but merely about "responsibility" and "consent." Likewise, it seems that goes to the heart of what some people want out of pornography, let alone what pressures must come to being in the industry (at least as I have been told by some). That things are expected, and not about what people want to do. So I wonder if it's
ever worth it?
In your case, you're more of an "established brand," of the top-tier, so that gives you more control of what happens next. I assume it would be your site and your control of partners if you ever did. I'm glad you're in that position. But I can understand when I see some responses from some, and how it might affect "non-established" names and profiles. How contracts could result in women doing what they don't want to do, and that's what most men don't want to see, or want to enjoy seeing (assuming we even know).
On the 'business' side of things, I believe it is a good idea not to jump into hardcore straight away. I think it's a sure way to end your career early. Once you do hardcore companies seem less likely to shoot you for solo and girl-girl sets.
Does seem to be the case. It's kinda like the first time someone "Breaks Hearts" (to steal the phrase from the card game). You suddenly see a rapid deposit of hearts (more hardcore, fast and regular) and high value other cards (solo never done before, probable it was something one did not want to do before), and what was the norm is lost, discarded to never return.
You know how much I love to eat pussy so can you imagine how sad it would be if no-one hired me to fuck beautiful women anymore? :surprise: Angie xox
I'm glad you've been able to find the harmony, and your work is your pleasure.
I promise to leave my discussion of the topic to this post and let others, including Angela, follow-up if they wish.
