I have to agree with this bit here. Not speaking about anyone in this thread specifically but most people that travel only hit up the main tourist attractions of a particular city, only stay there for a week or two and then claim that they've visited the city. Sorry but to me that doesn't mean shit to me.
Case in point: I was born and raised in Brooklyn and used to spend a considerable amount of time in Manhattan (NYC). Now a tourist from out of state or out of country will come to NYC on a visit and want to see all the typical sights like Times Square, Madison Square Garden, or Rockafellar Center. But anyone that's from here will tell you that those places are in no way representative of what NYC is really like because those places, especially nowadays, are overrun with just more tourists. If you really want to "experience NYC culture" you have to stay AWAY from the tourist attractions. You have to ride the subway at 2am on a weekend, experience night life in the less populated areas and visit average communities and neighborhoods to get a true sense of how real New Yorkers interact and live. Going to a random city, staying in some hotel, and only visiting bullshit tourist attractions doesn't mean shit.
And I don't give any kind of shit about any other city enough to want to experience their way of life in order for me to be more "cultured" (except for maybe Tokyo... and MAYBE Korea). That's just more pretentious bullshit that pretentious assholes like to say to make themselves think they're better than other people.
The last time I was in NYC I went to Astoria Queens to visit a friend. After hanging out in a bar, I decided to make my way back to my hotel at around 2:30 a.m.. Asked one of the bouncers where to find the closest subway entrance and he motions to a cabbie and says take this man back into Manhattan, it's on me just tip the driver and we will be cool. He seemed to think that the subway at 2 a.m. wasn't a good idea. I took his advice.