Sorry if this gets lengthy, but I haven't posted in a while and I actually have something to add to this subject...
Since I was a freshman in high school, I have been a drinker. I don't drink everyday, but I do drink more often than most people that I know. I'm not proud of it, but it's part of who I am, so I'm not really ashamed of it either. I have been told throughout my years that I am an alcoholic and that I should get help. Being the stubborn person that I am, I have never listened to anyone who has told me such things.
A few years ago, when I was still a stupid little Chef, I was arrested for a DUI. I accepted full responsibility for what I did and I still accept it to this very day. Part of my punishment was a sentence of attending mandatory AA meetings, twice a week, for a long, long time. At first, I hated it. It was embarassing, I felt offended and I didn't want to be there. But, after some time, I realized that some of the stories that I was hearing sounded awfully familiar to my own.
I had always been stubborn, but I slowly began to think that maybe I was an alcoholic and that I needed to be at those AA meetings. So, I started to take part in the meetings; sharing stories, befriending people, etc. For some unknown reason...I started to feel better about my life and I actually stopped drinking for a long time. I truly began to feel like part of the AA family and I ended up actually enjoying the meetings that I attended and the people that surrounded me there.
As I got to know the people better, we obviously got closer and learned more about one another, on a more personal level. We all knew eachother's stories and how we ended up in AA. It was at this point where I realized something about alcoholics...
Alcoholism is NOT a disease. Alcoholism is NOT an addiction.
Alcoholism is a lifestyle.
When somebody in an AA meeting would claim that they had a disease, the amount of genuine fury that was shown from true alcoholics was intense. As soon as the word "disease" was mentioned in an AA meeting, the members who truly understood alcoholism would immediately denounce the word and remind everybody else that alcoholism is not a disease. Rather, it is a lifestyle; it is a choice and a poor one at that.
AA meetings (for example) don't "cure" anything. They only help relieve the pressure to partake in the alcoholic lifestyle. Think about it...you literally sit in a room and share stories with people who have the same lifestyle as you. You don't take medicine. You don't go through rehabilitation. You talk. You just talk.
You can't cure a disease by talking, but it can surely beat the urge to drink.
:2 cents: