As far as AA goes, I wouldn't recommend it. I think they are a bunch of assholes, in my experience. and studies show that they are no more effective then people who just take the initiative to quit on their own without any kind of program (about 50/50).
First of all they think that only God can make you stop drinking. Which in my opinion, not only demoralizes the person by taking their actions completely outside of their control, but also increases the likelihood of failure by taking away their own responsibility for it. By that "logic" If god is supposed to cure you, then he must be the one that made you an alcoholic in the first place, and if you aren't cured, then you are meant to keep going on drinking, no matter how you feel about it.
Only they don't call it God, they call it a "Higher Power". that's ironic isn't it? high is a euphemism for being in a chemical induced state. the power, that was high, got you high, so now you want to go to Him to make you not high anymore. Who came up with this shit? he must have been high.
Wow, I had a completely different experience in AA. When I attended meetings, hardly anybody claimed that "God" (or any form of) was helping them stay sober. They all knew that they were doing it themselves, with the help of the people who attended the meetings with them. Yes, there
were some religious nutbags, but, in my experience, they only made up a very, very small percentage of people who went to AA meetings.
Also, hardly anyboby in AA ever preached about God and pushed the idea of religion on other people while I was there. The term "higher power" could mean
anything. Sure, it
could mean God...if you wanted it to. But, it could also mean your friends, your family, your children, your fellow AA members, etc. In my experience, most people looked to their family and fellow AA members as their "higher power", not God.
I made a joke about this in one of my meetings, and I think it fits here...
"If I'm trying to quit drinking, why would I trust someone who turned water into wine to help me?"