20 yr old virgins, most probable outcome in ur experience

[FOACCOUNT!@#$%]

so i read about neil strauss and david deangelo (2 very famous pick up artists) and was surprised that both lost their virginity late in life and not in high school or even college

my friends and I were talking (so all three of us had 4 exams in the past 5 days, a bit stressed) and we had conflicting points

one said that guys who are virgin that late in life tend to be academically oriented and they marry the first girl they get into a relationship with, another said that guys like that tend to go wild once they grow older and tend to be players or pick up artists and such, another point was that guys like that tend to be virgins at a very late age or just die virgins or die loners

what do you say?

 

[Hypergalaxy]

I say it depends on the guy. If a guy is a loser and doesnt take care of himself psychically or financially till he is 25 and then starts to I am sure he might get some ass or get married if thats what he wants(depending on guy). If a guy is just unappealing his whole life and doesnt choose to change it then he will eventually get someone I am sure but no one I would want my dick next to.

As far as "famous pick up artists"...w.e the hell they are, I am sure if they didnt get any action young they had a long time to think about how to.

 

[DOA82]

I think its a poor mans argument to blame the age he lost his virginity on whether or not he marries the first girl he meets.

I would rationalize it as a reflection of his emotional maturity at the time. Someone who loses their virginity at a young age will see it as sex, something two people do that feels good without taking into account the emotion involved.

A person who loses it later in life (Assuming its with a partner in a relationship) has an emotional bond with that person and treats the act appropriately. I lost mine later in life and I'm planning on marrying that girl.

"Players" aka assholes, have probably never associated any level of emotion with sex, side effect of losing it at a young age perhaps? Far as they are concerned what they do makes them feel good, inflates their ego and establishes them as men.

Then again it could all be just a random choice we all make when we feel the time is right. 15 or 30, you act or don't and make your life choice.

 

[lurkingdirk]

I think its a poor mans argument to blame the age he lost his virginity on whether or not he marries the first girl he meets.

I would rationalize it as a reflection of his emotional maturity at the time. Someone who loses their virginity at a young age will see it as sex, something two people do that feels good without taking into account the emotion involved.

A person who loses it later in life (Assuming its with a partner in a relationship) has an emotional bond with that person and treats the act appropriately. I lost mine later in life and I'm planning on marrying that girl.

"Players" aka assholes, have probably never associated any level of emotion with sex, side effect of losing it at a young age perhaps? Far as they are concerned what they do makes them feel good, inflates their ego and establishes them as men.

Then again it could all be just a random choice we all make when we feel the time is right. 15 or 30, you act or don't and make your life choice.

Hmm. I can't rep your sorry ass, but I'd like to.

 

[FreeOnes_Anders]

I say it depends on the guy. If a guy is a loser and doesnt take care of himself psychically or financially till he is 25 and then starts to I am sure he might get some ass or get married if thats what he wants(depending on guy). If a guy is just unappealing his whole life and doesnt choose to change it then he will eventually get someone I am sure but no one I would want my dick next to.

Pft, I´m balder than a bowling ball, got a beergut and a generally obnoxious attitude... and I´m in a long term relationship...

On the other hand... all of those traits might be because of the long term relationship...

 

[lurkingdirk]

Pft, I´m balder than a bowling ball, got a beergut and a generally obnoxious attitude... and I´m in a long term relationship...

On the other hand... all of those traits might be because of the long term relationship...

Does FreeOnes have a mandatory bald-man quota, or something?

 

[shimmy2]

taking off my freeoones court jester hat for a few minutes....

Seriously guys, those self help books/tapes are a great investment (david deangelo and such) wish I had been exposed to them prior to getting married and earlier on in my dating life, could have saved me years and a million bucks, literally. I highly recommend:

david deangelo
tariq nasheed
ross jeffries
robert greene
tony robbins

And a handful of others with decent selfhelp/dating guru types of advice if you are lost in the forest, and most guys are. In regards to the virginity thing, I didn't get any toto until my 2nd year of college due to me overthinking **** anyhow hope that helps, carry on

 

[Spleen]

I was 19, which is old compared to most people I know.

I was definitely not academically orientated and I definitely not going to be settling down at all any time soon.

I'll fuck anything that moves. It doesn't even really need to move.

 

[Ravenholm]

Virgins are cool.

And I should know how cool they are. I've been a virgin twice now.

 

[Will E Worm]

one said that guys who are virgin that late in life tend to be academically oriented and they marry the first girl they get into a relationship with, another said that guys like that tend to go wild once they grow older and tend to be players or pick up artists and such, another point was that guys like that tend to be virgins at a very late age or just die virgins or die loners

what do you say?

Pick up artists... You mean losers.

"guys who are virgin that late in life tend to be academically oriented and they marry the first girl they get into a relationship with"

People are different. So, this is wrong, nothing more than a blanket statement.

What's wrong with waiting until marriage and treating females with respect?

 

[FOACCOUNT!@#$%]

Pick up artists... You mean losers.

"guys who are virgin that late in life tend to be academically oriented and they marry the first girl they get into a relationship with"

People are different. So, this is wrong, nothing more than a blanket statement.

What's wrong with waiting until marriage and treating females with respect?

OMG are u serious?

 

[Will E Worm]

OMG are u serious?

You don't treat females with respect? :dunno:

 

[Jane Burgess]

I was 20 the first time I had sex. I really don't think age matters for men or women.

 

[STDiva]

There's too many factors to consider here.

 

[GibbsGrad2002]

normal (date some girls and then get married)

 

[lurkingdirk]

So, this is wrong, nothing more than a blanket statement.

There's too many factors to consider here.

Jebus on a motorcycle, crashing into Saint Paul. I never thought I'd see the day when Will and Steve said the same thing.

 

[luis1972]

normal (date some girls and then get married)

 

[FOACCOUNT!@#$%]

strong vote for one option

 

[Born2Jizz]

The majority of 20yo virgins I've met typically freak out over the first girl that they have sex/fall in love with... :2 cents::dunno:

 

[D-rock]

It's seems like your grasping at straws here a little. I don't think there is a nice convenient way to shoehorn all people that are 20+ years old and virgins into a category when there are a wide variety of reasons why they are that way. In most cases why they are is probably a very individual thing, and I would also have a hard time drawing any conclusions on their personality if that was all the information I had on them.