1st Anal

[9-incher]

Hello gals n guys


I have convinced my girl of 6 months to try anal sex,:bowdown: but I DON'T want to hurt her and fuck this up.

Im nervous as hell, like the first time I kiss a girl nervous.:eek: I am large down there, well of course she knows this because we've been together for 6 months.


So I got some question for you gals n guys that have done this before.

1st. She and I have never done this before.
2nd. Im I going to get shit on my dick?
3nd. Were tested and she can't have kids,so we dont use comdons.Should I?
4th. Lube or plain ole spit?

Any pointers would help.:thumbsup:

Wish me luck im going in.:wave2:

 

[Will E Worm]

Watch: Private Casting X 21, Viktoria's scene. :hatsoff:

 

[Hypergalaxy]

Hello gals n guys


I have convinced my girl of 6 months to try anal sex,:bowdown: but I DON'T want to hurt her and fuck this up.

Im nervous as hell, like the first time I kiss a girl nervous.:eek: I am large down there, well of course she knows this because we've been together for 6 months.


So I got some question for you gals n guys that have done this before.

1st. She and I have never done this before.
2nd. Im I going to get shit on my dick?
3nd. Were tested and she can't have kids,so we dont use comdons.Should I?
4th. Lube or plain ole spit?

Any pointers would help.:thumbsup:

Wish me luck im going in.:wave2:

There are so many threads about anal.. Search


1. Just like every other first take it slow
2. Use your head
3. I dont get the question? Condoms are a preference if you know both your personal status then make your own mind up
4. Lube

 

[9-incher]

Ive seen movies where the dudes don't wear condoms in the puss but they do in the ass. I was thinking a friction thing or something.

 

[Will E Worm]

Ive seen movies where the dudes don't wear condoms in the puss but they do in the ass. I was thinking a friction thing or something.

I've seen the opposite and many variations.

Watch the video.

Pierce Woodman. :frenchman

 

[MEATSANDWICH287]

You won't get shit on your dick but you will get germs and other things like that.

 

[Magnet]

make sure she cleans up there before hand (but not right before hand)

Hell search google and you can find out how to have good anal sex

 

[vaasta1987]

Make sure she cleans up a few hours before in the shower. Take it slow and make sure she's lubed up.

But more importantly, make sure you're both in the mood, just so it doesnt become technical, feel rushed, etc.

 

[Alyssa Rose]

1st. She and I have never done this before.
2nd. Im I going to get shit on my dick?
3nd. Were tested and she can't have kids,so we dont use comdons.Should I?
4th. Lube or plain ole spit?

From a womans point of view:
1st. Don't tell her to 'just relax' because she will likely ask if she can stick a 8" dildo up your ass and ask you to relax.
2nd. It's possible but if your girl likes to be clean its not likely.
3rd. Its great that your tested, kudos but FYI the whole "she cant have kids thing" well unless you know for a fact that her ovaries are removed, then always assume that she can get pregnant. Haven't you ever seen the show "I didn't know I was pregnant?"
4th. LUBE LUBE LUBE! Especially if her ass is virgin! A LOT of lube.

Have fun and most importantly, LISTEN to her, if she tells you more lube, use more, if she tells you to slow down, slow down etc. If you make this a positive experience she will most likely be down to do it again, and vice versa.
Also while your going at it don't forget about her, stimulate her clit while your in her ass, tell her how good it feels and stuff like that.

Good Luck :thumbsup:

 

[gunslingingbird]

Skip the whole experience altogether and have sex the way it was meant to. Just remember, (_o_) = exit only. :hatsoff:

 

[Will E Worm]

Skip the whole experience altogether and have sex the way it was meant to. Just remember, (_o_) = exit only. :hatsoff:

Then no one wouldn't be using condoms and he would be married.

Making babies. :tongue:

 

[gunslingingbird]

Then no one wouldn't be using condoms and he would be married.

Making babies. :tongue:

I don't use condoms with a girlfriend, I'm not married, and I've never had babies. :tongue:

 

[Johan]

3nd. Were tested and she can't have kids,so we dont use comdons.Should I?

Sodomy doesn't make children

 

[Lungzyn]

I don't use condoms with a girlfriend, I'm not married, and I've never had babies. :tongue:

Its not all bad being infertile right?

 

[gunslingingbird]

Its not all bad being infertile right?

Ah, you know, this Depro Povera shit's working great for me. The only problem is that I'm now the same size and shape as an adult Indian elephant, only I'm hairier, and my trunk isn't as long. :o

 

[Will E Worm]

I don't use condoms with a girlfriend, I'm not married, and I've never had babies. :tongue:

No, "safe" sex for you.

Sodomy doesn't make children

Sodomy: man+man or woman+woman

 

[satyrsam]

1st. She and I have never done this before.
Insert your finger first with lots of lube. Get her used to the feeling of something in her ass.
2nd. Im I going to get shit on my dick?
Always assume that you will. Make sure that she takes a dump an hour before to minimize the chances. She could have an enema, but it's not recommended if she has regular anal penetration.
3nd. Were tested and she can't have kids,so we dont use comdons.Should I?
If you need to ask then you should. Besides it will be easier the first time with a condom. The condom doesn't absorb the lube as your skin does, so your cock should glide easier in to her anus.
4th. Lube or plain ole spit?
Water based lube and too much of it. Keep adding lube as you massage her anus with your finger.
- Once you can feel her anus muscles a bit more relaxed you could insert a second finger or a small toy.
- Add lube to your cock and very slowly insert just the tip of your cock, not more than a half an inch or 1cm. Pay attention to her reaction, if you want to have regular anal sex then this is you only chance to get it right or you may scar her experience.
- Add so more lube, even if she tells you to push it in, DON'T do it. Insert just the head an leave it there for a bit.
- Pull out and add some more lube. You should repeat this step 2 or 3 times. Then keep it in and gently push it in about 1 inch, always pay attention to how she reacts. Then gently pull back about an inch, move your cock in an out for about 1 minute.
- At this point DO Not pull out. Then you should be able to go in a bit further. Push in gently an extra inch, Keep it there for a bit.
- Now thrust back an forth gently and it should be comfortable for her.
- Now you should know how to continue.

She should be in a comfortable position, laying down on her back or stomach. The dogie position is nice but she might not be ready for it.

 

[wrayven]

1st. She and I have never done this before.
Insert your finger first with lots of lube. Get her used to the feeling of something in her ass.
2nd. Im I going to get shit on my dick?
Always assume that you will. Make sure that she takes a dump an hour before to minimize the chances. She could have an enema, but it's not recommended if she has regular anal penetration.
3nd. Were tested and she can't have kids,so we dont use comdons.Should I?
If you need to ask then you should. Besides it will be easier the first time with a condom. The condom doesn't absorb the lube as your skin does, so your cock should glide easier in to her anus.
4th. Lube or plain ole spit?
Water based lube and too much of it. Keep adding lube as you massage her anus with your finger.
- Once you can feel her anus muscles a bit more relaxed you could insert a second finger or a small toy.
- Add lube to your cock and very slowly insert just the tip of your cock, not more than a half an inch or 1cm. Pay attention to her reaction, if you want to have regular anal sex then this is you only chance to get it right or you may scar her experience.
- Add so more lube, even if she tells you to push it in, DON'T do it. Insert just the head an leave it there for a bit.
- Pull out and add some more lube. You should repeat this step 2 or 3 times. Then keep it in and gently push it in about 1 inch, always pay attention to how she reacts. Then gently pull back about an inch, move your cock in an out for about 1 minute.
- At this point DO Not pull out. Then you should be able to go in a bit further. Push in gently an extra inch, Keep it there for a bit.
- Now thrust back an forth gently and it should be comfortable for her.
- Now you should know how to continue.

She should be in a comfortable position, laying down on her back or stomach. The dogie position is nice but she might not be ready for it.

This is some pretty good advice. I would add that experimenting with toys, especially a butt plug, would also be good to see your lady even likes to have any anal sex. In my experience, the woman has to feel absolutely relaxed and into anal penetration for a good experience. The orgasms can be real intense. Go slow, she'll like it more & more.

 

[sonoman]

So I got some question for you gals n guys that have done this before.

1st. She and I have never done this before.

2nd. Im I going to get shit on my dick?

3nd. We're tested and she can't have kids,so we dont use comdons.Should I?

4th. Lube or plain ole spit?

1. Some good advice has already been given for 1st-timers. I've only been with girls that had already done anal before meeting me, so I'll refer you to the above posts.


2. Not very likely under most circumstances, even when anal sex hasn't been 'planned' and happens spontaneously. In three years with my last girlfriend, this did not happen once.


3. Most girls I've been with tell me that skin-on-skin contact (i.e. condom-less) feels better with anal. Condoms tend to dry up after a short time and will not feel comfortable to her, regardless of lube.

Keep in mind that pregnancy is always a possibility, with any sex act. Use common sense. If you ejaculate inside her (and you will), take care when you pull out, don't lay your penis anywhere near her vagina, and make sure she cleans afterward. Always think about gravity; if she's laying flat on her back, as opposed to her stomach, there's much less chance any semen will leak into her pussy. [Again, the condom-less approach assumes you are both tested]


4. Lube. Astroglide is good but will evaporate after a while. Keep a bottle beside you at all times and be ready to squirt a few drops when needed. There are also silicone-based lubes that won't dry out, but I have never used these myself. After a while, You Might find that spit is sufficient is she's already worked up and genuinely likes it. Until then, use lube.


I hope this helps. PM me if you need more help!

 

[leroy nutz]

use really good lube.