No, I've been totally me when talking to her. I can't buy her a drink (Nor would I really want to, because that cuts into MY drinking...) because she's the hostess at one of my bars, so she's working, while I'm there drinking. Ok! Well I had the right idea then! I did everything you said! Whims told me to be an asshole and pretend like I don't care, but be nice at the same time. That didn't make any sense to me because she's not that kind of girl.
*Now what I'd REALLY like to know is how do I outshine the other guy? :dunno: I'm really new to her and they have history, but I can tell she's on the fence about committing to him again. But they're still having sex... :crying: