WOW! That is a very good list, tell your woman I really REALLY appreciate it
Tequila does work, but it's not necessary.
I prefer mood music and lighting and all the old fashioned romantic stuff, but a couple margaritas never hurt anything! Hehe...
But yeah, I've looked into some songs and they are definitely along the lines of what I seek, so that's really cool of you and her for the help!