Somehow you’ve got to be wildly successful. If not, there’s something very wrong with the world. Because you have something that noone else has (at least noone else in porn that I know of). I think “Zen” is the best word I can think of. “Realness” is a good word too. Maybe “sincerity” or “presence in the moment.” It’s exactly what’s missing from most porn, which is exactly why most porn is ultimately unsatisfying, and you have it.