a friendly note to all:
don't take it personal if i deny your "friend request" - i just need a bit more than just your request.
even if it's "just internet and fun" - to be a friend is not just a number in a list (and to me, i don't care about a huge amount of friends just to say to myself: hey, look how many friends i have).
when i "let you in" or when you receive a friend request by me, it's based on sympathy. sympathy by the way of conversation we had together or by the way a summary of your postings reflects your personality. you haven't to be special, i am not special. but i like to keep the word "friend" seriously.
say it's hostile. i say it's hos' style
feel free to leave a message and/or have a good time.
frank