Yeah I heard something like that. But ethical sluts is a term that means nothing to me really, a slut is a slut.....wether it is a man or woman, one defintion. To call someone in the bed like that in the moment of passion is something else, can be a turn on. Kinda like a fetish, that is okay and just lovely, I like that too. Happened not so much in my sexual life (certainly not with most girls), only a few times a girl liked it. One got really wild after that, twisted almost my cock off in her enthusiasm lol!
Oh absolutely, real life matters the most, thugh sometimes Freeones does take over, the urge and desire to see porn. It is an addiction for sure. But take your time man, no rush at all.....