Finally got a girl again

[Bloodshot Scott]

Yeah. I been outta the game for a bit with my ******** addiction. Finally got me some vagina. I am a little standoffish with this girl though because she spread her legs the first day I hung out with her. She's been with numerous sex partners and I've only had a few in my 30-something years. I was rock hard after laying with her for a little while and stuck my hand up her crotch - she went off like a roman candle and wanted to suck on my knob like corn on the cob.

Definitely not a chick I want a long term deal with, but I am at the point now where I want to get married and have ****. Just don't think she's the one and don't trust her entirely being that she's been with so many dicks. I think she's just wants a sex friend, and I'm heading over there today after the Masters to probably give her a good lay.

Just thought I'd post it.

 

[Bonezstorm]

So?

 

[Harley Spencer]

Congrats on finally getting a girl, but I don't see how having been with a lot of sex partners should be a deal breaker. If all guys felt that way, I'd never be in relationships. And I **** the double standard of it being ok if a guy gets to ***** around, have one night stands, friends with benefits, or a lot of sexual partners in his past, but a girl is looked down on if she's done the same. Your past sexual history shouldn't matter if you like someone enough.

 

[xfire]

What she's done in the past is irrelevant if she's willing to make a commitment to you for the future. A virgin bride can cheat on you.

 

[Bloodshot Scott]

Congrats on finally getting a girl, but I don't see how having been with a lot of sex partners should be a deal breaker. If all guys felt that way, I'd never be in relationships. And I **** the double standard of it being ok if a guy gets to ***** around, have one night stands, friends with benefits, or a lot of sexual partners in his past, but a girl is looked down on if she's done the same. Your past sexual history shouldn't matter if you like someone enough.

Well, it definitely fucked my head up when it was almost instant that she spread 'em and she has had around three dozen dicks. I mean, you have to understand it's a bit disconcerting especially when life-partner/wife is on my mind. And I don't doubt there's a double standard when it comes to this issue.

What she's done in the past is irrelevant if she's willing to make a commitment to you for the future. A virgin bride can cheat on you.

Yes this is true.

 

[Harley Spencer]

Well, it definitely fucked my head up when it was almost instant that she spread 'em and she has had around three dozen dicks. I mean, you have to understand it's a bit disconcerting especially when life-partner/wife is on my mind. And I don't doubt there's a double standard when it comes to this issue.

Yes this is true.

I've had about 3 dozen partners too. Does that mean I'm not worthy of being loved and cared for?

And how instant is instant? Did she drop her pants as soon as she walked in the door, or was there some stuff leading up to it? You must have been sending off some signals that you were down for sex, such as flirting, inviting her home, getting her into your bed... It takes two to have sex, so how is she at any more fault than you for the two of you having sex?

 

[Chopper3000]

I don't really see what the problem is here? Turn up with a mop and bucket, a Spiderman outfit and a can of swarfega if you want to impress her.

 

[Bloodshot Scott]

I've had about 3 dozen partners too. Does that mean I'm not worthy of being loved and cared for?

And how instant is instant? Did she drop her pants as soon as she walked in the door, or was there some stuff leading up to it? You must have been sending off some signals that you were down for sex, such as flirting, inviting her home, getting her into your bed... It takes two to have sex, so how is she at any more fault than you for the two of you having sex?

No. But I don't know your background either. As I said I've only had a few sex partners and as few 'real' girlfriends.

I think too that part of me likes a bit of a challenge with a girl - and she didn't give me a challenge.

I would have to answer 'yes' though to your questions; it was more or less mutual and I had been told by other people that she had said she thought I was cute and I basically had a gut feeling she wanted dick.

 

[Harley Spencer]

No. But I don't know your background either. As I said I've only had a few sex partners and as few 'real' girlfriends.

I think too that part of me likes a bit of a challenge with a girl - and she didn't give me a challenge.

I would have to answer 'yes' though to your questions; it was more or less mutual and I had been told by other people that she had said she thought I was cute and I basically had a gut feeling she wanted dick.

Ah well, no one is ******* you to get into a relationship with her. If you're only interested in her for sex, there's nothing wrong with that, and have fun. I just don't like the idea of someone thinking so negatively of a girl because she's an easy lay.

 

[Bloodshot Scott]

That's probably all it will amount to. God forbid I get something from her though. I'd never forgive myself for it.

 

[Harley Spencer]

That's probably all it will amount to. God forbid I get something from her though. I'd never forgive myself for it.

Having a long sexual history doesn't mean you have STDs. I've never once gotten a single STD, aside from problems like yeast and bladder infections, which isn't the same. Don't equate lots of sex to being dirty.

 

[HappyHapyJoyJoy]

Let me see if I got the gist of this thread down:

Bloodshot Scott [paraphrased]: "I want a girl who doesn't seem to particularly like sex because I think that will make me happy!"​

Good luck with that! :thumbsup:

 

[Bloodshot Scott]

I'm leaving right now to go blow my load into her.

 

[Ace Boobtoucher]

You know I have to make a smartass remark.














So did you suck your new girl's dick?

 

[Mr_Stiffy]

Dear Penthouse.......

I was rock hard after laying with her for a little while and stuck my hand up her crotch - she went off like a roman candle and wanted to suck on my knob like corn on the cob.

..... after several minutes stirring her lobster bisque with my ham mallet, I pulled out and decorated her face with my cock custard.

Scott,
Up North

 

[Will E Worm]

I am a little standoffish with this girl though because she spread her legs the first day I hung out with her. She's been with numerous sex partners and I've only had a few in my 30-something years.

Then why are you with her and having sex with her?

Too many "partners" is a good sign to stay away from her or him.


Did you at least get her checked for diseases?

 

[bobjustbob]

You want to have a wife and ****? Go back to ******** and get those silly thoughts out of your head.

 

[Rey C.]

Nothing wrong with having some fun along the way, Scott. As long as she's good for your sobriety, and even if you wouldn't want to have her as a future life partner, take positives from whatever time you do spend with her.

Good luck with it, dude.

 

[Death-Proof-69]

Congrats on finally getting a girl, but I don't see how having been with a lot of sex partners should be a deal breaker. If all guys felt that way, I'd never be in relationships. And I **** the double standard of it being ok if a guy gets to ***** around, have one night stands, friends with benefits, or a lot of sexual partners in his past, but a girl is looked down on if she's done the same. Your past sexual history shouldn't matter if you like someone enough.

agreed completely. it's fucked up how backwards thinking people are on this subject. casual sex is great and equally acceptable for both men and women in my opinion.

anyway, congrats scott, have fun, keep an open mind and don't be judgmental. the fact she's been around a bit says nothing about her other than she is likely a sexually liberated women and that can actually be a great thing for a serious relationship. just be sure to be clear on communication so the two of you are on the same page about your relationship. i can easily see potential issues arising where you are under the impression that you're exclusive and she thinks you're just a friend with benefits. it'd be a shame to fuck up a potential life partner because of false assumptions stemming from poor communication. just because she has an active sex life doesn't mean she isn't open to settling down with one guy. that being said, i recommend you just see where it goes and don't let your mind get in the way by overthinking

also, i'm not sure if you're implying you've been getting over your ******** addiction but if you have then big congrats on that. it's a much tougher substance to get over than most people think it is. :clap:

 

[Bloodshot Scott]

I nailed her two times that day. She kept yapping in my ear about taking the rubber off but I wasn't having it. While I'm more of an ass man than a titty man, she's got DD implants and seems to like my technique, says now she's got a crush on me. Whatever. It just feels good to feel like a *** again. I hope all you fellas that are struggling get the chance to live life to the fullest and get yourselves some females as well. Definitely feel better about life when someone out there is so into you.