I think she made a big mistake by announcing she was going to do some b/g stuff. I understand that people have second thoughts, and that is natural, but if she wasn't 100% ready to make that leap, then she should not have announced that she was.
I think I said it earlier in this thread but I'll say it again since no one should care what I say anyway lol: I don't really want to see her do boy/girl anymore.