I get to do it once in a while yes. I am lucky to have an extremely atractive well built wife. See she says its deffinitely painfull when I enter, but the pain is bearable and "great/nice" to an extent. She cums very quickly from it and when she has, thats the end of it. Fullstop.
She says she wont do it if I didnt have the need. I enjoy it for the simple honest reasons that 1) yes the ***** has a psycological effect 2) Nothing beats seeing her face / looking at her during anal and seeing her cum from it. It is more intense than any other orgasm (she agrees). It is the only time she fully and completely looses it. Its like she takes a good few seconds to realize where she has been. But thats it then. No touch. Fullstop
Allowed me once to do double pen. using a strapon in a love swing. I went in missionary, with the strapon (vuc u lock) above myself. The strap in her pussy and me doing anal. Best fuck I ever had. She had tears in her eyes.
She lets me play there while diving and enjoys the odd plug while normal.
Would like to do it more, but if she ever said - no more, I would not beg (although I would like to)
My two cents