Your worst "I should've just kissed her" regrets/moments

Mine:

I was actually involved competitive figure skating in my younger days. (you may think it's sissy, but it's actually an outstanding way to meet gorgeous girls who are inevitably pretty, slender and in excellent shape; not to mention most of the other guys are gay which greatly reduces your competition).

One time, my partner--a gorgeous russian brunette--was trying out costumes another girl offered her to purchase. We've been partners for about 6 months...and I've always had a huge crush on her...I can't even recount the # of times I got a hard-on on the ice from staring at that amazing ass of her jiggling in front of me as she skated. She always had this on-again off-again non-skating bf on the side...so my interest in her was only fulfilled in my fantasies. Anyways, on this day she asked me if I can offer my opinions on how she looked in these costumes she was about to try on.

As with many of the smaller practice rinks there were no separate male/female lockers. The place was mostly deserted anyway, so we just walked into the smaller locker room...she was by the benches and I was near the door, and she just said "ok I'm gonna change can you just keep an eye out that no guys walk in", with that, she took her top and pants off and was down to her bra and (thong) panties...

Now THIS is the painful part...feeling inappropriate and panicky, I just mumbled something about ok I'll turn around while you change...and turned around.

That's when I heard her make this "ugh" noise. I glimpsed back...and there she was, beautiful in her creamy white flawless skin, with nothing on except a skimpy bra and panties, staring at me...and saying these words: "you are not a man!" in this disappointed voice, and with that, she grabbed the costume and put it on.

I don't remember the rest...but in all likelihood I just offered her stupid feedback on the rest of the dresses. :(

The skating days are behind me, and I've never slept with her or even kissed her. And yes, I was very young and very inexperienced back then. But to this day, I wonder what would've happened if only I were a bit more experienced...and just went up to her and kissed her after she stripped down, and then took her by the hand into the shower stalls. We're both in happy relationships now and still friends, so maybe it was for the better, or at least I tell myself so, but sometimes I still wonder, it might've been more than a crush :(...
 
Methinks you were looking for this thread. :hatsoff:
 
Wow.....sometimes things in life are just too weird. This is kinda what I am going through right now. Wasn't sure if I wanted to bring it up, but this is too coincidental.

So I am seeing/hanging out with this girl from Ukraine who just moved to the U.S. two months ago. I met her through my Russian teacher, who suggested I meet her for tutoring. Needless to say, I was more than interested, and from the moment I saw her two weeks ago, I've been hooked. So any chance I get, I head over to the house where she is a nanny (that's how she was able to come here), and we "study" Russian. Really, we usually go out for a walk to one of the coffee shops, sit there for an hour, and then head back to her house for study time.

So far, nothing has happened. Our cultures are totally different, so it's hard for me to get a read on how she is feeling about me. I look forward every day to talking with her; she's the funniest girl I have ever met, and making her laugh is not hard at all. I love hanging out with her. I want to make a move, as I am fairly sure she is interested in me in more than a friend way, BUT I don't want to lean in for a kiss and have her pull back. That would ruin everything going right now, and for the first time in a long time, I love hanging out with a girl, and not just for the prospect of possible booty time.

I don't know what to do. Ukrainians are generally very open, sharing, warm people, so all of her generosity towards me, well, I am trying not to read too much into it, because that is just how they are. She makes me tea, cooked me an omelette the other night, has made me salads, pancakes.......if this was an American girl, we'd have been in bed by now. But I know this is how Ukrainian women are, so I don't know if this is just how she is with her friends, or if I should try to advance it further.

I don't want regrets. If I don't do anything, I'll regret it, but if I make a move, and I have misread all the signs, and ruin this friendship, I'll regret that too. She's seriously the sweetest girl I have ever met......I really don't want to fuck this up like I have always done in the past. It's only been a couple weeks at this point, but we have spent a ton of time together, as I am one of the few people she knows.

There are worse problems to have, and I am not bitching here. I really do just look forward to being with her and talking about her home, her family, her friends, whatever she feels like talking about. I've had more fun this last couple of weeks than I have had in a very long time. This thread just gave me the chance to throw out to you all what I have been up to these past two weeks.......don't know what the fuck to do.:dunno:
 
Well I have had some in my life when I was younger and super shy. Now that I am married I try not to pursue anything out of other than still watch porn. But check this out last night I had a dream in which I was being introduced to at least 5 hot exotic looking brunettes (italians, spaniards, romanians) it was weird as hell, but I would not hit on them and they seemed very eager to mess around with me, then one of the closest one that was near me we ended up in my bed just laying down no sex ,no kissing I could not see myself doing it. So when I woke up I was like "shit that was just a dream I should have kissed and fucked the hell out of those ladies or at least the favorite one" but I did not. Weird shit dreams play with your hidden desires or past regrets? I did woke up with woodie! lol
 

Spleen

Banned?
Twice at the same bar, different occasions. First time I was chatting to this girl and she asked me to dance, so I did... Then I just left her. I dunno why I didn't try to kiss her because she was fucking goreous and obviously liked me.

Second time some chicks on spring break asked me to dance, and I said no. Instead my friend danced with them, and they asked him to go to their hotel for sex. He said no coz he's a christian, but I would of done it.

I never went to that bar again...
 

Legzman

what the fuck you lookin at?
Don't care about "shoulda just kissed her" More like "shoulda just fucked her" but sometimes I just couldn't get her signals straight. Only 2 women thank god.

Looking back it woulda been nice. But one was only 19 at the time and young chicks are to weird about commitment and shit like that. The other was a nice sexy mexican milf! But for the life of me I couldn't figure out how to initiate any kind of conversation leading up to that while at work. Her english was horrible, but god damn she was sexy! Shoulda tried harder I guess.
 

ChefChiTown

The secret ingredient? MY BALLS
When I look back on it all, I should've kissed and/or had sex with every girl I had a chance with. I should've just been a scumbag and fucked as many girls as I could, because, in all reality, being a "nice guy" doesn't get you very far in life.
 
When I look back on it all, I should've kissed and/or had sex with every girl I had a chance with. I should've just been a scumbag and fucked as many girls as I could, because, in all reality, being a "nice guy" doesn't get you very far in life.

What Chef said, when were all on our death beds were not going to be looking back on our lives and thinking we should have done more to save the planet or to make more money for our children, or even to go further in our jobs. What we are going to look back on and think is that we should have gotten much, MUCH more ass!

Take it whilst when its put on a plate for you, thats my philosophy. And I live by it!!!
 

Legzman

what the fuck you lookin at?
Take it whilst when its put on a plate for you, thats my philosophy. And I live by it!!!

I'll have to put a plate under my girlfriends ass next time I munch! :rofl:
never had it on a plate before!
 

Legzman

what the fuck you lookin at?
Never heard of that.
 
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